What we cherish, we call the treasure of the soul. The person who is the breath of our life, we call them the soul's kindred. The place that grants us peace—when we speak of it, we say: stepping there seems to refresh the very soul! Our most beloved things we do not lodge in heart or mind alone, but place them in the soul itself, mingling them there with the most tender care. Those we love—their darker aspects we may know, yet far more often do we dwell upon their luminous sides. When we see them trembling with fear, we strengthen their self-assurance. When we find them drowning in worry, we set their thoughts free. We know their limitations as well as we know them, yet we labor to open, one by one, the doors to their boundless possibility, doing whatever must be done, at any cost. Who do we need most on life's journey? Someone who offers us wise counsel, someone who solves our difficulties gracefully, someone who heals our wounds. Far less than humanity desires to banish suffering does it desire to share it. We need one who can suffer with us, one who becomes our twin soul and holds all our wounds within their own heart. As certain companions inspire us to pray in the Creator's house, so in our desolation, in our solitude, in our darkest moments, we have dire need of one who comes to stand beside us with a tender heart and gentle hands. A couple's marriage dissolves. Soon after, both husband and wife marry again. Within months of the second marriage, the husband loses both his legs in a road accident and becomes paralyzed. His second wife then abandons him. He had no one to care for him. Then his first wife and her new husband took upon themselves the full responsibility of tending to this helpless man. For twenty-six years it has continued thus. The first wife and her husband spent their married life serving this crippled, forsaken soul. What greater example of friendship could there be? Disagreement, discord, distance—these are not the death of love. Divorce is not the dawn of eternal enmity. Chris Norton, in 2010, playing football, suffered an injury to his spinal cord and became paralyzed from the neck downward, nearly robbed of all movement. He would never walk again. Two paths lay before him then. To surrender himself to the mercy of circumstance, or to refuse defeat and prove his worth against it. He believed that if he tried, he could transform that tragedy into opportunity, and all around him would learn by his example. He began to give inspirational talks. To those physically disabled, he began showing the dream of living well. Through sheer willpower, patience, and perseverance, he graduated in 2015. Three years after the accident, he met Emily Summers. Had he surrendered, had he abandoned himself to fate, surely he would never have crossed paths with this extraordinary, beautiful soul. To everyone's amazement, with his fiancée's support, he struggled painfully to his feet at his graduation ceremony and collected his certificate. He tells everyone: "I want you to choose the difficult path of fighting on."“Discover within all your misfortune, struggle, and suffering the affirmative possibilities that await you. Each of us carries the capacity to unearth the latent potentials of life. If you can do this—if you can move forward with patience and steadfastness—I give you my word that extraordinary goodness lies in store for you.”
Thus does the power of love and faith transmute the impossible into the possible. In the beautiful yearning of another’s heart, one finds the Divine. True friendship illuminates life’s finest dimensions. There is no greater fortune than to find a true friend, and should that friend remain at your side through life’s journey, they render existence itself meaningful. A good friend is like a fine wine—as time moves forward, the bonds of friendship grow ever more precious. A true friend will reveal to us our weaknesses, so that we might mend them. Our failings diminish even our good friends; our suffering augments their sorrow. That there exist souls of such tender hearts in this world—this alone keeps the earth beautiful still. With a handful of such companions, one could spend entire lifetimes in laughter and lightness, and deem it well lived.