Sri Ramakrishna explains things so simply. I am breaking down and rewriting from my own understanding of the 'Kathamrita'. Lord Sri Krishna says in the Bhagavad Gita (12/4): Sanniyanmanendriyo-gram sarvatra sama-buddhayah. Te prapnuvanti mam eva sarva-bhuta-hite ratah.. Word-meaning: sarvatra (everywhere) sama-buddhayah (possessed of equanimous wisdom) sarva-bhuta-hite (in the welfare of all beings) ratah (engaged or absorbed) [becoming] cha indriya-gramam (and the senses) sanniyan (restrained) te (they) mam eva (me alone) prapnuvanti (attain). Translation: (Yet) those who are equanimous everywhere and devoted to the welfare of all creatures, who have withdrawn the senses from their objects—[they worship that unmanifest, unthinkable, immutable, all-pervading, changeless, eternal, imperishable Brahman,] they too attain me. Through mastery of the senses, through compassion for all beings, and through equanimity towards all creatures, they too attain me. (Taken from Vishwadeb Mukhopadhyay's 'Mahapayaramrita Gita') The Essence: Jagadish Chandra Ghosh: "Through worship of the attributeless, too, I am attained, for I am the Supreme Person possessing both attributelessness and attributes—both are but different manifestations of my being." Swami Apurvananda: "Whether one worships the Lord with attributes or without, one attains him—this is what Sri Krishna makes clear when he says that those who meditate upon the imperishable Brahman also attain me... For he is both saguna and nirguna; and they shall attain that Vasudeva." This part of the verse deserves special attention: sarva-bhuta-hite ratah—engaged in the welfare of all creatures. The Master was out on the water that day (27 October 1882) with the esteemed Keshab Sen. The steamboat was rushing swiftly toward Calcutta. Everyone sat absorbed, listening to the Master's words. Time flowed on; nobody noticed. Puffed rice and coconut were being eaten. Everyone ate with joy. Keshab had arranged the snacks. Keshab and Vijay sat huddled together. The Master had to kindle affection between these two innocent souls. Sri Ramakrishna, looking toward Keshab, spoke: Listen! Here comes Vijay. Your quarrels and disputes—they are like the war between Shiva and Rama. (The Master laughed.) Rama's guru was Shiva. They fought, yes, but they also became one in spirit. But Shiva's ghosts and Rama's monkeys... their bickering and squabbling never ends! (The Master burst into loud laughter.) That is how it is with those close to one another. Lav and Kush actually fought with Rama. And think of it—how much discord we see even between a mother and daughter! Now consider: when God himself is playing out his divine sport, why do we need Jatila and Kutila to complicate matters? The truth is, without them the Lord's play would not happen at all! (Everyone laughed.) Without them, would there be such fun and games? (The Master burst into loud laughter again.) Again, look at Ramanuja—he was a philosopher of qualified non-dualism. His guru was an advaitin. In the end, the two disagreed. Guru and disciple began refuting each other's views. Such things do happen. Whatever may be, they are still one's own people! Ah, how beautifully Sri Ramakrishna is explaining this to us! Think about it: among Krishna, Ramakrishna, Anukulchandra, Swarupa Ananda, Nigmananda, Jagadbandhdu, Ram Thakur, and Hari Chandra—is there any quarreling or wrangling? How could there be? They are all pointing toward the same destination! Lord Sri Krishna himself is saying: Keep your senses restrained, do good to all (harm none), let there not for a moment enter your mind the thought "this one is mine, that one is not mine"—live thus, and you shall attain me. The heart of it is this: if one follows the Lord's teaching, there is no room for such division and distance! The great souls themselves did not do such things, nor did they teach their followers to do so. Yet look—what an absurd circus is playing out all around us!
Over there, between Rama and Shiva, not a whisper of trouble; but here, between monkeys and ghosts, the quarreling never ends!
Unless a man stops to think whether this is love of God or mere business, he will never become human—he’ll spend his whole life shrieking like a monkey or a ghost, until his breath runs out.
Those who make us dance like monkeys are no godly men; they’re merely money-men. We leap from tree to tree, pluck bananas for them; they feast and smile, and graciously leave us the peels. And God, watching it all, will chuckle and say: So you’ve stayed monkeys after all! There was no need for you to become human!
The man who judges others in order to find God is merely lording it over God himself. Such a man is no man at all—he is either a monkey or a ghost. The monkey leaps; the ghost shrieks. Has anyone ever found God by leaping or shrieking? Prayer is always hidden, always silent and secret.
A man who has no knowledge of his own prayer—
yet seeks to know the prayers of others!
Can anything come of this?