ভাবনা: তিনশো ছিয়াশি
Started Working at P@ul’s Coaching Home
January 2004 — Director
Address: Jamal Khan Road (Beside Rangs-Toshiba Showroom), Chittagong, Bangladesh
Overview: A coaching centre providing academic coaching for from class VIII to Honours
Started Working at DOVANA
February 2009 — Owner
Address: 27/B, 37/C, Gulzar Tower, 1st Floor, Chawk Bazaar, Chittagong, Bangladesh
Overview: An exclusive giftshop that deals in gifts, show-pieces, ladies’ & gents’ ornaments, fun items, magic items, handicrafts, music, classic and non-classic movies, document-based gift items and many more….
May 14, 2009
: আপনি কি বেকার নাকি?…..ফিলসফি স্টাডি করছেন!! Only stupid frustrated and unemployedpersons have nothing to do except researching on philosophy. I don’t think you are some one of them.
: I am unemployed contributing to the unemployment problem of Bangladesh!…You know…dear friend……..Philosophy is the mother of all sciences……Thanks God you are not a scientist!
: So I guess right….Yeah thanks ALLAH I never wanna be an intellectual…or anything like that!
: Man proposes………God disposes………
May 23, 2009
Silence wins when words fail.
June 26, 2009 via RIP Michael Jackson
I drew an empty circle on the black canvas of my heart last night; / Stare at it a while: You’ll find there “The Moonwalker” — the hero behind my sight!………………………… (My tribute to Michael Jackson: the legend!)
August 21, 2009
Only those who have a very low personality, find pleasure in hurting others’ personality.
August 22, 2009
Facebook……. a broad canvas for expressing the colour of our life.
August 22, 2009
Never care what others think about you, just care what you think about yourself; because you’ll make your life, not others will.
August 22, 2009
You can never make another person happy if you’re not happy yourself.
August 23, 2009
Life goes on in its own way. It’s beautiful only if we discover its treasures, otherwise not.
August 23, 2009
Losing one’s heart for someone is probably the only loss in the world that always gains something.
August 25, 2009
Life is beautiful.
August 30, 2009
Paradoxical Human Nature: When you say, “I love you”, he/she says, “It’s too early!” When you don’t say that, he/she thinks, “Isn’t it too late?”
August 30, 2009
……..enjoying the golden twilight!……..feel like dancing
August 30, 2009
Which one does a true lover say? “I love you because I can’t live without you.” or, “I can’t live without you because I love you.”
: A very nice discussion is going on. So far, I’ve seen, I think that if you’re in true love, you can live with or, without your beloved for his/her happiness. Pragmatically, you never bother about whether your beloved can or, can’t live without you.
But, in case of marriage, you’ve to marry only that person who can’t live without you, otherwise there might be a break up after your marriage.
Now, comes another relevant point. Should love result in marriage, or, not?
1st one when I was first in love and now as I have matured the 2nd one.
August 31, 2009
I think, men are of two types: ¡) Alive & ¡¡) Married……. Friends! Agree? or, Disagree?
Hmm…… Marriage….one of the most sweet-sounding yet least understood words in the pragmatic world. Most of the marriage lasts being based on compromising instead of actual mutual intelligibility. Is taking something from heart and just accepting it as we’ve to, bears the same meaning? Never. So, here the spouses often act to be happy instead of being really happy. I even heard that about 80% of successful marriages are generally based on lies. But, at last, not the least, I can say that this social institution is too indoctrinated to deny.
August 31, 2009
Love is such a language which the deaf can hear, an expression which the blind can see.
When words fail, love speaks. You can refuse words, but how can you refuse love with which your heart is formed of?
August 31, 2009
An astrologer said, “You’ll pass the next 2 years in miseries.” I asked, “After that?” “Then you’ll hopefully become habituated to it!” he replied.
Huh! I don’t believe in it. But, I sometimes go to them just to help them. I firmly believe that serving mankind is a nobel task.
September 1, 2009
If you’re obstinate, for example, the more you’re tried to be controlled, the more you enjoy becoming more obstinate.
A woman would not change an inkling of my beloved, every breath, every gesture is precious!
But, if I ever go for a brain transplant I’d like your brain. It’s not because you’re a genius. I would only like a fresh brain that has never been used.
September 2, 2009
Bangladeshi Airlines slogan: A Warm experience & Motherly treatment……. ‘Warm’ because AC doesn’t work & ‘Motherly’ because the air hostesses are above 50.
Hmm…….. Let’s launch a campaign bearing a slogan: Beautiful and only smart girls of or, below 30 should be appointed as air hostesses. Huh! As passengers, we deserve better mental care and satisfaction. The AC’s should be repaired, or the windows should be kept open! If we start sweating, we might not look smart and then the smart hostesses might not like to talk to us. Friends! Are you with me in the campaign? Hmm…… Many good points to mention…… We the sub-continent people pretend to be spiritual, but actually crazy about sex (good sign!)……….. Sexy girls needn’t necessarily be under 30…….. We need Air India not Mother India. I need Mother Bangladesh. (lolz)……. There should be arrangements for gays also. (Ahem, ahem!)……….
ভাবনা: তিনশো সাতাশি
September 2, 2009
They say, my smile can be compared to a flower, my voice can be compared to a cuckoo, my innocence to a child, but in stupidity I have no comparison. I am the best.
: Hmm…… If I hadn’t submitted this status message, I’d have not realized how seriously funny this matter actually is. Lol. Ok, I’ve never been dumped by any girl or, dumped anyone either! Anyway, I should have not offended those who are good runners in this regard! Sorry for that! (lol)……. See, one my kind friends has kindly said that I talk too much foul. Thanks. Should a stupid talk wisely?…….. I don’t love girls, they love me. I just can’t hurt them. Lol……… Finally, I can say that love runs blind, so better depend on blind-dating! Hahahaha……
: Some have suggested here to stand still. Can you ever touch you shadow? Lol……… What’s the use of passing even your whole life just staring at a dumb shadow?……….. Again, I often feel proud of my stupidity as in this God-gifted virtue I’m second to none! Girls are by far, fond of stupid, as they don’t prefer any smart one who can trace their stupidity easily!……. Hmm……. Seriousness? This seems too heavy for me to bear!…… I can at most be a serious stupid only, not more than that! Thanks.
Friends! Have you ever tried to fight with your own shadow? It’s amazing! Just try it!…….. I tried it many times and have found that this is the only strife in the world where you’ll lose the appeal of rejoicing the victory even if you win!……… Just imagine that you’re walking but, you’ve no shadow. Are you a human being at all it this case?…….. One possible solution: Walk in darkness. No shadow will follow you! No one is there whom you can chase or, who can chase you either! Hahahaha…….
September 4, 2009
If you love someone but he/she doesn’t care you or your feelings, should you still yearn for his/her sympathy?
September 4, 2009
To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Friends! Then, what may be the possible solution to avoid suffering?
We have to be careful in love. There is no guarantee and warranty and long list of T&C applicable in big fonts. When we love someone, there is no guarantee that he or she will luv us too, but we give them the right to hurt us!
Now, I’d like to share, Is one-sided love agreeable, however? Why should you deserve the pain that is not yours only? Pain of jealousy? Well. Is it not fully your personal? Should it be granted? Pain in love is agreeable. But what’s the use of unwarranted agony? You may go on loving without any demand or further expectation, but can you tell me what’s the course of it? Does it ultimately not remain only at your part regardless of the mutual intelligibility?
September 5, 2009
Love is the only truth that rules reasonably without any reason.
September 6, 2009
People never salute you, they just salute your position. What’s the use of you but for your position?
September 10, 2009
Things are that they are and things will be that they will be.
: I don’t wish to conclude anywhere….but just to pull on the thought process, lemme go a little further. Unlike the 3 co-ordinates on which lies the entire astronomy, there is a 4th co-ordinate called ‘time’ propagated by none other than all-time great scientist Einstein. I donno the background of Renee but Sushanta may be aware of the famous theory of relativity of Albert. Under this if any physical particle travels with the speed of light, time factor becomes ‘0’; and if it exceeds light-speed, ‘time’ becomes -ve. And that’s what the astrology is…..to know what lies under the secret of future ‘time’ factor. On this Albert’s theory there has been not less than millions acquiring PhD, for or against, to prove or disapprove…. Time becomes -ve means, if we start our journey today, we would have reached yesterday. We know it doesn’t make sense. But anything supernatural when stablished through proven logic, becomes natural. I don’t wish to advocate for ‘superstitions’, just a thought
: Nice interpretation! I’d like to add…………….we generally act on strong impulses and our impulses instigate us on some common theories mostly ensued from our previous experience. Hence, we generally dare not be out of our traditionalism. But if we have an independent view on the way of life and can explore in the avenues that are self-created, we can find the real truth of life. Being a master of one’s soul is a must in this case. Otherwise we miserably become a slave to indoctrinated thoughts.
: Off course YES. That’s what the entire science is……to discover something new. When we say new, it is new to us only. Whereas it is already existing as per the law of nature. And we can’t change that law, we can only know the new secrets of ‘NATURE’…..which may also be called GOD as per ones faith. A real way of life, according to me, is ‘listen to all…. don’t block your receiver for anything….but make an independent opinion of your own. Also the thought should be open to changes and not become a victim of mental-block. Irrespective of what has been spoon-fed into our brain, it’s got to be ready for any changes anytime…..You may recall, probably it was Galileo who became victim of going against the mental block of society at that time, for propagating theory of earth revolving around sun that was against the ‘Bible’ (no offence to any faith intended plz).
: The present God-based Religions are largely biased! Let build up the impulse to accept Religion for Man’s sake instead of Religion for God’s/Religion’s sake.
ভাবনা: তিনশো আটাশি
September 10, 2009
Friends! What is the sweetest taste of sin and you do even if you know it’s wrong?
September 21, 2009
Some relationships are made only to break up, some are forever,… forever,….. forever!
September 22, 2009
I met her once, yet didn’t…… What an illusion!
September 22, 2009
What have I learnt from this Eid vacation?… Well, some movies are hard to digest, some are easy to be digested!
September 25, 2009
Never say, I love you, to anyone, if you really don’t mean it. Please never do it, never.
: OK, friends, tell me, I love you, thousands of times or even more as you wish. But, please never say goodbye after that. I’m afraid I’d never be able to bear the pain of parting with someone who once told me those three wonderful words, I LOVE YOU!
It’s better to love than to hate. In that sense, I love you, you also love me. But, that’s pathetic. Sometimes, bitter hatred means also ardent love. Again, love also breeds hatred sometimes. So, it’s an illusion we can hardly escape just like the insects which can hardly deny the attraction of death flying to the fire.
September 28, 2009
Our sweetest moments come too late, go away too fast. Eid & Puja came too late, went away too fast!….. Why are dreamy moments so short-lived? Why?
November 7, 2009
When life sticks onto the definition of ‘gender’, ‘an unexpected death of human spirit’ occurs… Friends! Agree? or, Disagree?
November 15, 2009
This morning I’ve realized that I’m still too young to have learnt to say ‘no’ to a young woman…
November 21, 2009
I often thank God that all my prayers have not been answered…
November 24, 2009
A girl often pretends she doesn’t know when a boy notices her… Friends!.. Agree? or, Disagree?
January 1, 2010
Friends! Believe it or not, it’s true!… I went to bed in 2009 and amazingly woke up in 2010… I slept for just 19 years less than Rip Van Winkle did!… The Rip Van Winkle of the present time wish you a gorgeous 2010 ahead!!
January 12, 2010
Friends! Do you think that nowadays Corruption has become another name of Careerism?
January 13, 2010
I think… It’s better to be a first-class citizen of a second-class country than to be a second-class citizen of a first-class country… Friends! Do you agree? or, Not?
January 20, 2010
Even a stupid has his own excuses to be a stupid!
January 29, 2010
I walked on the wall of darkness,… Love made its journey to my soul,… I wonder I hardly noticed its pace,… Only discovered its essence in the silent music of darkness!
February 10, 2010
Better being sad than being happy when you are not ready to feel happiness…
February 11, 2010
To tell a lie is not a sin, but to tell a lie without mastering how to tell a lie is a sin…
February 13, 2010
Goodbye Winter… Welcome Spring… Spring teaches me everytime the bliss of solitude… I think I’ve been taught enough!
February 14, 2010
Valentine’s Day : “I’m back again! “… Solitude : “Never say GOODBYE! “… Sushanta : “Grrrrrrrrrr……!!! “
February 16, 2010
I was born a genius, education ruined me…
:…. I’m not an engineer. People know me as an engineer… I hope you can guess what I’m saying!
… Our education system is yet to blur the gap between ‘education’ and ‘learning’… Being educated not being learned can never usher a way to be a genius… Watch the movie ‘3 IDIOTS’… And, we’ll find how a genius is killed every moment everywhere.
February 18, 2010
You can never call it a fortune until you reach the final destination. Nothing can beat the audacity of misfortune.
February 20, 2010
We can get whatever we want, but we cannot want whatever we want.
February 21, 2010
একুশ আমার দুঃখিনী বর্ণমালার স্বোপার্জিত সুখস্বপ্ন…..
February 22, 2010
Sometimes I myself become impatient seeing my over-patience!
February 23, 2010
Most of the beautiful girls are very smart at making an unsmart conversation…
February 26, 2010
… now on the way to Saint Martin’s Island…across the river Naaf….. Yahoo….
February 26, 2010
… enjoying the crimson red colour of sunset scattered on the dreamy green corals….the sun playing hide and seek with the blue ocean… waves kissing my feet…breeze touching my soul…. Saint Martin’s Island… A masterpiece of God!
February 27, 2010
….on a journey to Chera Dwip by boat across the crystal-clear green water…la la la
February 27, 2010
… now in Chera Dwip, the last southern border of Bangladesh, an isolated coral-island… walking on green corals peeping through crystal-clear water…sweet sunlight scattered on dreamy waves. Nature’s masterpiece!.. Seeing is believing!
February 27, 2010
Goodbye Saint Martin’s Island, the beauty spot of the Bay!… I’ll miss the murmuring of endless waves, tranquil beauty of the live corals…
ভাবনা: তিনশো উননব্বই
February 28, 2010
It’s very difficult to deal with lower-class people. They always try to draw you down to their level.
March 2, 2010
We’re good when we claim we’re good. We’re worse when we claim we’re better. We’re the worst when we claim we’re the best… Friends! Do you agree?
March 5, 2010
Bertrand Russell….. one of the most difficult writers to disagree with I’ve ever read…
March 6, 2010
Most of the beautiful and powerful persons don’t have enough sense of humour… Friends! Do you agree?
March 7, 2010
My soul sighs for my studious youth…
March 8, 2010
March 8, 2010
The easiest way to remember a girl’s name is trying to forget it…
:…. I’ve a very wonderful memory for forgetting names, especially girls’ names… I know it’s not memory’s task to forget….. So, I must have an extraordinary memory….. Later on, I tried to assign the task of forgetting to my memory… My plan worked miserably well, now I can remember the names most boring girls I’ve ever met….. Grrrrrrr…..
…. I know I’m not young enough to think I’m young!…. My memory is good at forgetting other nouns too… common, collective, material, abstract… But, the interesting fact is, it works only when I try to forget what I don’t want to remember, I mean I want to remember. It might be for that I’m an aged young man… lol
Never mind. My dear friend Sohel is fully ready to give you a golden chance. (He has said that your chance is still ON) Don’t miss it. Grab it as early as possible before it’s too late. You’re really very lucky. He is one of the best persons I’ve ever seen in my life…… Wish you and Sohel a happy dating….
… Please read my comments on this status message, you’ll get the meaning…
…. My dear friend has driven you crazy, I see!… Cool down, he is a better guy than you can even think of, I can guarantee…. Tell me if I can be of your help…. You don’t know who he is, so you’re commenting so rubbishly about a wonderful person….. Please don’t pretend that you don’t like the colours of the rainbow when you’ve created the rainbow in your heart….. Happy dating!!
…….O Khan Shaheb! Where are you hiding? Please appease her. She gonna turn mad, none but you can handle this situation…. Sanya, why are you so angry? Who told you to go for a dating? I think Sohel is silent here, mind it. He is too polite to make a rude comment. I’m just kidding and you’re so serious. Come on Sanya, our life is too short to be so serious. Imagine a life without any fun, I know that would not be a funny thing to do! Let’s be smart enough to handle such things smartly… Happy… (O sorry! I must not say anything again, after all I like your friendship… )
….. I hate trying something I’m not supposed to try….
March 9, 2010
I think, therefore I’m single….
: Friends!…. Solitude is a bliss but the problem is, there is no conversation. I often think that it’s better to live alone than to live with a wrong person, and the fact is, I could never find a Miss Right! (I rather found many who often Miss Right!)… Life is a Disneyland, and most of the girls I’ve ever met are just the Mickey Mouses. I never felt like spending my whole life with a Mickey Mouse (Life never seems something to me to be spent in just compromising) … And, I often talk to myself as I prefer to talk to only better class people, but I know very well that hardly remains convincible deal always…. I feel I’m the eleventh one out of ten you can count. Alone with in the midst of crowd not worthy of breaking my solitary state…. We can get whatever we want, but the problem is, we can never want whatever we want…. Solitude is not always a good companion, after all….
: চলে যায় বসন্তের দিনগুলি একাকী। আমি ইদানিং আর দিন গুনি না, দিনগুলিই আমার একাকীত্বের প্রহর গুনে চলে যায়…
… Something often goes wrong, perhaps I let it go wrong…. I don’t know, but it goes. I can’t go wrong with it, and so it goes wrong…
…. I have friends who say, ‘Good Twilight!’…. But I miss someone who can say, ‘It’s Twilight! ‘.. I often make a mess, I feel there should be someone to make or unmake this mess for me….
… I find many already born, so keep on looking for someone to be born yet. That’s not an easy deal, I know, but I like to be stupid in indulging myself into this audacity of hope….
March 10, 2010
A flatterer always finds a stupid to flatter….
March 15, 2010
Being a good person is more difficult than being a religious person. Most of us follow the easier one.
March 17, 2010
Jean-Paul Sartre… a writer difficult to read, more difficult not to read once started reading.
March 18, 2010
Friends! Is there any shortcut to avoid the clash between Dream and Reality?…
: Both are dreams… The only difference is, Dream is a dream dreamt, while Reality is a dream felt… We’re often better dreamers than we’re not supposed to be, worse feelers than we’re supposed to be…
Dreaming for dream’s sake is never worth-dreaming, because when the dream ends, you’re left only with reality. Life exists in the wide gap between Dream and Reality. We’re life. Life’s we. Dream pays much here. But we can’t live here forever. We must go where we’re supposed to go. Staying is better but not possible always. Life is never so easy as to not have to say Goodbye to dream. We’re to back to reality at dream’s departure…. Is there any technique for learning not to dream anything not worthy of dreaming?
… Thinking shapes our inner world, outer world remains the same as it was. We can never stop thinking as we’re meant for it. Dreaming a dream that never is so, can be a better feeling but always a worse payer as long as the world around is considered. Living in a Utopia is better for living, turns worse once lived. Dream is the keyword, Reality is the preceder though it is supposed to be the follower. Such is the life lying between the gap between Dream and Reality, dreaming of a world that never was… that never will be. We are such puppets in the hands of eternity — the worst player ever created…… I often wonder why given all our skills, resources and talents, I, so obviously capable of being the best, settle so often for the worst. Different issues and themes struck me on my mind’s pilgrimage around the gap between Dream and Reality… Are there any digestible packages of suggestion to be followed in this regard? I’m often a great dreamer of Dream but a wrong doer with Reality…
: This is the crude fact of life………………..hard work, dedication, sincerity, talent, knowledge and deserving, all contribute only 10% to what you get…………………..rest is luck, fate, destinity, opportunity n timing…………………….notwithstanding inheritance.
:….. Inheritance works only in case of people who are born only to inherit not to acquire. Acquisition, no doubt, pays much more than inheritance… We can never inherit anything, just we’re often reluctant or helpless to be out of such easy inheritance track!
: Inheritance gives the platform and foundation to acquisition.
ভাবনা: তিনশো নব্বই
March 20, 2010
You have started late, it never means that you cannot reach the goal earlier… Friends! Agree? or, Disagree?
March 21, 2010
I hate to follow a ‘Do or Die’ principle. Our life is too short to be so serious. I like to ‘do’, but I never consider anything worthy of my death if not done…
March 22, 2010
I’m a worse engineer but a better thinker who always thinks that his life would have been dreamy if he had not been an engineer…
March 22, 2010
They all are blind and they claim to see. I’m not blind but they want me to be blind. That is to say, they want me to be their King!… King of Idiots!!… Grrrrrr
March 22, 2010
I’ve a wonderful memory for forgetting things. I often rename girls I know, name boys I don’t know…
: But, forgetting things has a great advantage too… Every time I enjoy the beautiful things for the first time… Things are never old to me. I’m never experienced, just enjoy everything for the first time..
… It’s nice to hear that you at least have remembered that he is the MD of that company. Things might turn worse otherwise!… Brother, I’ve many unpleasant experiences about forgetting names. Some of them are really horrible! Now, I’ve devised a funny technique. It works, however. I try to remember the names of the boys and to forget the names of the girls. You may give it a try. It works, really it works!…lol
…. What’s in a name? Well, the things that you might avoid by calling someone rightly by his/her… A name might pay less than you hope, but renaming pays much more you deserve. You can try it, it works instantly especially in cases of girls…
: But I can remember names that I don’t want to remember… I can’t forget the names that I want to forget…
March 30, 2010
Dear friends! I’m quite confused about deciding which job of Bangladesh Civil Service would suit me most. Could you please suggest me something?
: I’m now in a Hamletian Complexity!… To be or not to be that is the question…
:…. Actually, now I’m to fill up an application form of Bangladesh Civil Service exam, the toughest of all the exams held in Bangladesh. There I’m required to put my priority of Govt cadres or posts. I’ve primarily decided to choose the cadres in this sequence: Foreign Affairs, Police, Administration, Customs and some others. If I can qualify the exam and be at the top of the merit list Govt will recruit me in either of the first two choices (usually this is procedure). I can’t decide whether I need to change the order… Thank you for the suggestion Dipali… Thank you for putting your opinion here…
…. Who told you I’m a book-worm? I just read books for the same reason as I take food… Anyway, I also feel like preferring to join the Administration or Foreign Affairs as my ultimate goal is to be a writer. I could think of joining other sectors other than Public service. But, the charm of Public service, I think, is the social security regarding Money and Power. The most important aspect is to fulfil my commitment to the country as it deserves something from me. Thank you.
… I don’t know how far I’d be able to be true to this commitment, but I’m determined on my part…
… Thank you for your comment. Your suggestion sounds quite self-experiencing! I know you’re saying from a generalized standpoint. It’s ok, but not holds good in my case. I’m the eleventh one out of ten you can count. I’ve the confidence on my worth. If things around me don’t turn worse, I think, I’ll not be tenth one till my death. Thanks.
… Thank you once again for your presence on my wall… My father is an advocate and he is the most honest person I’ve ever seen in my life unlike many of his contemporaries. We’re not rich but we’re happy having all a man needs to live a decent life. I’ve grown up to this age with some indoctrinated senses of honesty that I can hardly think to be out of. If things turn wrong, I’ll rather break down but not bend.
… I’m the most indecisive person I’ve ever seen in my life till now! I’m always in a never-ending loop regarding any decision….
March 30, 2010
Dear friends! Which post or cadre of Bangladesh Civil Service, do you think, is the best? I sincerely ask for your opinion.
…. My cadre choices are Foreign Affairs, Police, Administration and Customs respectively. And on the top of the above four, my choice is Hamletian Complexity! I’m very good at sticking to indecision…. And, that’s the greatest problem I often face.
…. Thank you for the kind suggestion. I’ve a plan to go abroad to complete my Masters and Ph. D. I’ll do it on a study leave after joining the civil service… I know I’m more ‘oshanto’ than I seem to be, and that’s the reason why I’m too indecisive! And, it’s a rare fortune that you’re beside me to suggest and guide me to go the path I should. I can’t step if I’m not told to step…
….. I also dream of it much… But, it’s really tough to prove myself worthy of it… FA is considered as an Elite Cadre and so the competition is the toughest there. Lots of deserving candidates waiting to grab it. So, I must be among the top 15 students in the Bangladesh Civil Service (BCS) exam to prove myself worthy of it. It’s really a tough job to do…
…. Your inspiring words always suggest me something that I should have been suggested within my heart. Whenever I lack in resolution, your soothing words provide it. You’re the magician to throw the glance of aspiration. Yes, I can, so I will…
ভাবনা: তিনশো একানব্বই
March 31, 2010
The worst sides of our weakness often hide the best sides of our strength. Agree? or, Disagree?
…. Thank you for the words of inspiration. I always think positive, can’t do positive always however. My instincts usually pay better than my intellects and it creates a mess too often. Though I never let grief and sadness engulf me, they’re quite good at making their own way!
….. The things we hide resemble us most, I think. There is a constant clash between our instinct and intellect. This clash sometimes finds its way to a happy resolution through the dictation our conscience. But, often things around are not too rosy to make a everything okay for a happy ending. A power in disguise in more miserable than weakness itself. We can hardly be out of the never-ending track of illusionary thoughts. We do what we should not do. We like to think what we really need to stop thinking. It’s a psychological Odyssey none could ever complete, I doubt!
: Disagree. Strength and weakness are relative terms. worst side of our weakness may be our strength against one opponent and best side of our strength may be our weakness against another.
: Work hard to improve your strengths. Weakness will fade away.
…. So true in some perspectives as love and hatred are also too relative to define universally. If we impose some common traits on the range of strength and weakness, perhaps it holds true. Our strong sides are often veiled behind our weaker side due to some instincts within or some catalysts without. Great is the person who can be out of self-denying instincts…
…. That’s the only measure to be adopted, not easy though… Hercules and Hamlet can hardly be friends within our minds.
: Flexibility is the key. Trees which don’t bend can’t weather storms. It’s about how you can play your weakness to strength, because you cannot ever change some of the basic characteristics, for instance, the physical ones. Break free from conventionality and look at bright side of things that are predefined as dark and base.
# A beautiful mind with a beautiful face for a beautiful life…
April 16, 2010
Sometimes the best part of our life we try to remember is the worst part of it we try to forget.
April 17, 2010
The darkness touches my soul,
Ire and malice make the night ever-veiled:
This is not the dismay, not the worried illusion,
But being lost in sleep half-awaken!
What’s this but the dance of summer ever-sprung?
Blazed sky at night, intervened though,
The pandemonium of the deaf and the dumb!
Colourful procession of satanic verses!
With but a gesture—
Spreads the flame in my mind, my soul.
Endless darkness pierces only but once—
Charms of sylvan life catch my sight.
Again, fades away the ghostly shadows;
The world within waits in the transparent darkness—
Stops even the eternity. Awful.
Focused on the greatest pledge ever-made!
Friends! Could anyone of you please suggest a title for this poetry after reading it?
… ‘Darkness touches my soul’… Is it the name you’re suggesting?
…. Hmm.. The name I’ve suggested is perhaps blurring the hidden optimism of this poetry. It comes to your mind. Right?
…. Let not the optimistic flavour be lost… Your suggestion stands alone setting aside mine…
……….The illusion of darkness
…. Wow! Who knew you’ve such an imagination!
….. Thank you, Sir, for your suggestion. I feel honoured at your second comment. These days I don’t update my status frequently. I’m experimenting how it feels to keep silent. Silence is the most powerful word to make people around speak.
April 20, 2010
: I filled my share…SP, can you feel the love around you?
: It’s not all around anymore. It enters my heart, my soul. It’s within, not without.
: Well-said….as long as you felt it within your soul…for that is what matters…
: Better said…. The magic of love revealed so simply by you.
: Again inspired by you…love always rules us.
: Rule it instead. You’ll be ruled more for sure!
April 21, 2010
সব কিছু ভেঙে পড়ে….. (Nothing lasts forever)
: Dear friends! Thank you all for your radiant presence on my wall. An interesting fact… The Bengali version of my status message bears the title of a book by Humayun Azad, a legendary intellect and the English one is also the title of a book by Sidney Sheldon, a prominent writer. COINCIDENTAL! Isn’t it? Both of them are my favourites.
…. The term ‘forever’ is too relative to be brought under any universalized definition, yet it conveys some meaning as long as time-interval is considered. And such time-slots are often biased through our inclination, urge, target, vision etc. And in context of a predefined notion which we live by, my statement perhaps holds good.
….. In such a world with complicated thoughts and transient illusions it’s often rather daunting to make things around last as long as we wish. Things are that they’re, our attitude towards them matters most. How we feel is more important than what we really feel. Things around often turn worse long before they really turn worse. And such is the course of life!
…. Things fall apart only when our thoughts fall apart. We make things better or worse, they never change truly. They neither fall apart nor gather close. We make, ‘something’ remake. Mystery of Nature unveiled forever.
…. There is an interesting similarity between ‘GHOST’ and ‘TRUE LOVE’. Everyone speaks of them, but no one has ever seen them.
…. Palaces are built to be reduced to dust. What could last forever? Nothing. And nothing should be allowed to last forever, otherwise it’ll be suicidal for human race. Creation would be stopped; the world is sure to lose its beauty.
….. No memory is either sweet or bitter. The memory we try to remember seems sweet, the memory we try to forget is bitter. It’s too relative. You can never call a memory absolutely sweet or bitter.
….. I think, therefore I’m. I follow, therefore I’m not. Someone else thought, therefore he/she was. I followed, therefore I wasn’t. Existence is the magic of thought. Once we lose the power of free thinking, we’re not existing any more. Existentialism teaches the art of living. Belief is often self-denial. True knowledge never springs from beliefs, it springs from doubts. We last till our doubts last. Nothingness overshadows personality. A dead soul is the most dangerous thing. A soul that never lived can never die also. It can’t last forever as it was not born at all!
ভাবনা: তিনশো বিরানব্বই
April 23, 2010
sweet moments with sweeter persons . . . . .
April 24, 2010
: দোস্তো আমার কি ভেঙে পড়লো? কেমন আছো? আসার সময় ফোন দিয়েছিলাম, তুমি রিসিভ করনি। কেমন আছো তুমি? আমরা ভাল আছি।
: দোস্তো, আমি ভাল আছি। তোমাকে খুব মিস করি। তোমার ফেসবুক অ্যাকাউন্টটা রিঅ্যাক্টিভেট করেছ, এই ব্যাপারটা জানতাম না। অ্যাকাউন্টটা তো অ্যাক্টিভ রাখবে, না? It’s easy to connect through facebook for me. . . . আমি ঘুমিয়ে পড়েছিলাম, তাই কল রিসিভ করতে পারিনি। সরি, দোস্ত। মেরিকে আমার শুভেচ্ছা দিয়ো।. . . . রিসেন্টলি আমার কোচিং সেন্টারটা ছেড়ে দিয়েছি, তাই ওই স্ট্যাটাসটা দিলাম।. . . . .মনে পড়ে, তুমি কানাডা যাওয়ার আগের সময়টাতে আমরা অনেক মজা করতাম?. . . . ভাল থেকো।. . . Bye.
: দোস্তো, খুব ফিল করছি তোমাকে। অনেক খারাপ লাগছে। আমি ফেসবুকে থাকবো কি না জানি না, বাট তুমি আমার মেইলে যোগাযোগ রেখো। আর মাঝেমাঝে আমি তোমাকে নক করবো। ভাল থেকো, আমার জন্য দোয়া কোরো। আমার ক্লাস শুরু হচ্ছে মে থেকে। তোমার ভাবি অনেক ভাল একটা মেয়ে। সে অনেক হ্যাপি আমাকে পেয়ে, আমিও হ্যাপি। তুমি আমাদের জন্য দোয়া কোরো। কোচিং ছেড়ে দিয়েছ শুনে ভাল লাগলো। মনে হচ্ছে, এখন কিছু একটা করতে পারবে। এই প্রত্যাশাই করি। ভাল থেকো।
: Have a happy conjugal life . . . Be blessed always. . . My vaabi is a good woman . . . Well, my brother is a better man, huh! I can tell it for sure.
Keep in touch. Bye.
: Keep in touch too, bye.
April 26, 2010
It’s very easy to give up smoking, my friend has done it a thousand times . . . . . (Poor fellow! )
. . . . . Giving up a habit is not an easy task. Agreed . . . For instance, I can tell you for sure it’s not almost possible for me or some others like me to quit Facebook though there are a good number of reasons convincing enough for quitting it. It’s a passion, much more than merely an addiction. But, it’s not such an addiction that ruins the addicts as well as people around them who don’t use Facebook. An addiction that harms only the addicted but not the others who aren’t addicted, isn’t so disapproving. After all, everyone has the right to die or live in the way he/she chooses. Living by letting others live isn’t an offence. . . Smoking is not such an addiction. You’re bound to be harmed even though you’re not addicted. Usually any type of addicted person (addicted to any type of habit) is devoid of commonsense. He hardly cares about whether he is proving himself an idiot in front of others for his addiction. Fascination often turns to addiction. You’ve the right to be fascinated but you have no right to create pain for others. It’s very silly from my point of view. If you don’t cause any type of stupid inconvenience for people around you, they will not care about your fascination or addiction, whatever it is. I personally never care about others’ personal likings or dislikngs. I live and let others live. This is the way I prefer to follow. To be honest, I never care about whether smoking or any rubbish thing like it, is harmful or not. Until I’m not involved into it, it’s of little use to care about someone who don’t care about himself. I can just try to dissuade him from smoking being a genuine well-wisher but I can never change him if he doesn’t feel like being changed. Some are born to break not bend, it’s their choice. But, I can hardly tolerate if any stupid emits a puff of smoke before me and compels me to be a passive smoker. And the fact is, smokers, like all other addicts, are just stupids. They enjoy such stupidity as they’re often devoid of commonsense. Such people are of very low personality — my own opinion. I often request my smoker friends or known persons not to smoke in front of me. They try to convince me saying that I won’t die if they finish a cigarette before me. What a rubbish! And, I’m sure the non-smokers always face the same problem as I do. It’s not easy to teach a stupid public etiquette. I’m not supposed to be such a great teacher.
Thanks to all for your kind presence on my wall.
. . . . Who am I to advise people? They’re intelligent enough to do it for themselves. True. Dear friends, I’m requesting you to read my first comment. Everyone has the right to choose the way of life for himself. But is it approving if anyone causes troubles for others? A gentleman never causes troubles for others. Being addicted to anything might be your personal matter, but you’ve no right to make others suffer for your addiction. Die or live as you wish, but let others live. Thanks.
. . . . Some are stupid by born, some are stupid by instinct, some are stupid by choice. I’ve no objection to their stupidity until it makes me suffer unnecessarily. Thanks.
. . . . I’m sorry if my words hurt you. Who told you I’m always a gentleman? I’m a gentleman only with gentlemen. Could you please suggest me any other word that should be used to greet a stupid?
April 28, 2010
I’m a perfect vegetarian. I hate non-veg items. I like vegetable with chicken, vegetable with prawn, vegetable with fish.
May 6, 2010
Ques. Why do some people use fake profile pictures in facebook? . . . Ans. Because, they love only beautiful things . . . . Hats off to those lovers of beauty.
May 9, 2010
I think, The Mothers’ Day shows us how ungrateful we are to our mothers on the other 364 days of the year . . . Am I wrong in holding this idea?
# My mother practises what I preach. Preaching is always easier than Practising. She is the most wonderful woman I’ve ever met. . . Shame upon those who desert their mother for their stupid beloved.
May 11, 2010
I’ve no money, I’ve no house, I’ve no car; but I’ve “status” . . . Thanks, facebook . . . Grrrrrrrrr…….