The art of misleading: intentionally giving false information, distorting reality, embellishing response or avoiding responding at all, or lying and giving false information, are all expressions of weakness. Indeed, “white lies” do not exist, the concept has been designed to reduce the intent and consequences of the lie, the use of the concept of white lies does not deprive man of responsibility of an act of a weak character. Realize this: a white lie is born from the lack of ability to speak the truth, or the lack of will to speak the truth. Such reluctance is based on dishonest intentions, and dishonest intentions are created from thoughts of wanting to deceive, falsify, and act dishonestly for one's own advantage and one's disadvantage. Instead of speaking in the name of honesty, man pulls his moral ace out of the shirt sleeve: the white lie. The card is played with unequivocal self-assurance, a minor conflict manages to be avoided with the help of a white lie when the man is then confronted by his inner moral police he answers: “it was only about small things”. Little things? Had man and his partner considered the reason for the white lie trivial, there would be no incentive for man to produce the lie from the beginning.
Immediate honesty is an attitude toward one's fellow human beings with the ability to reduce conflict density while justifying the white lie increases the density of conflict. The concept is easy to understand, though seemingly alarmingly difficult to relate to in practice: a lie is the start of a chain reaction. The purpose of the first lie is to avoid conflict, the next lie is born as a result of the compulsion to follow the red thread in the false story of truth man created with the first lie. The process continues similarly until the card house of lies collapses. Indeed, it is only a matter of time before a lie, through a seemingly chemical formula, is transformed into ten lies, to a hundred lies, to a thousand lies. It is only a matter of time when man is eaten alive by his self-image to the moral compass to be followed by his pathetic and lying behavior. Consequence: Your fellow man calls your lies, with his eyesight he penetrates your broken, lying skin right into your dishonest, constantly rotten heart. May man express himself freely, where freedom is intended to express himself truthfully, where truth is listened to. May man dive headfirst into the conflict, instead of allowing the anger, darkness, and lack of confidence to rise and increase to the extent that a war breaks out, the outcome of which only a seer can predict.
The cruel lie is born out of the greed of man, this kind of the core of the lie is a growing desire to portray his individual in an ideal shape instead of showing the real being behind the lie, these lies are used only for his own benefit, and to the disappointment of his fellow human beings. Carriers of cruel lies shape their self-image based on the ideals he strives to achieve, not on who he actually is--the person behind the curtain, behind the illusion of the ideal. The curtain man embraces his individual with, this facade is shaped like a thin shell around the individual, this shell breaks with the same ease as a card house collapses--it only requires a breath of wind. When the shell breaks--because it is inevitable, the individual's lack of content becomes visible, the shell is empty with no trace of humanity.
This devastating scenario is today's everyday life, he prides himself on joy and success in the public space, while in his loneliness he suffocates from a lack of supportive social relationships. These people can no longer create supportive relationships--a high wall blocks viewers from seeing what is on the other side, instead of embracing meaningless acquaintances and material assets. Man's illusory lifestyle has not generated a single friend who--without a second's hesitation--would travel five hours in the middle of the night when he needs his friend the most, such a lying lifestyle for the only man on a path, into the emotional darkness.
The man who abuses cruel lies lacks the ability to self-examine, and the words that emerge when he finds the courage to open the door and see himself in the mirror: tore me out of my body, I do not want it, I do not want to be me. The vile liar must develop the ability to perform the necessary actions in order to cut off the desire to lie, and thus begin the journey towards establishing a reality-based self-image. The cruel liar's first step is to renounce the bad, and his ultimate goal is to totally reject the lie as a tool in life. Man must reach a certain level of self-examination in order to even realize that he is a liar, that he is only an empty shell--his self-image a mirage. Man should develop his individual and set clear goals for how to move from the path into the emotional darkness to a more health-promoting walking path. The beauty of denying one's lies is indeed the realization that lies are not required to present oneself as one's ideal, for man instead confirms his ideal.
But what value would the art of lying have had if the scam was not used and abused by the supposedly good people? The height of falsehood is viewed at those times the warrior of goodness--the alleged defenders of good values and actions, deliberately abusing the power of falsehood for the good cause. The abuse of the lies of goodness is based on the conviction that, in the name of the good opinions, it covers truths with a veil of lies. The art of justifying these commendable acts has its roots in various ideologies: good end goals justify, even encourage, the use of the devil's tools. Utopia must be secured by all means necessary, whether it be violence, lies or blackmail. Abusers of the lies of goodness cling to epithets: politicians, lawyers, police, carpenters, criminals---ad infinitum, these people exist within all of the strata of society.
Seldom are the liars of goodness the sole wolves: they are members of larger contexts, they are the servants and soldiers of ideology. The liar's liar advocates a set of principles and values, just as a priest preaches these beliefs, and like a hypocrite, the liar deviates from practicing these beliefs. May man avoid the temptation to use the devil's tools to argue or preach, may man instead use reality as a starting point to develop his views. When a person's positions no longer find support, in reality, he must then examine his ways of thinking and opinions and then form new ideas, those with a foundation in reality.
The art of lying: is this ability only the tools of the weak in the absence of true abilities, or do legitimate expressions of lies exist? Pose that good lies exist: false information with the ability to produce goodness, me, of course, no such lies exist. The question is whether the following philosophical question can be excluded: Can a lie represent goodness? The lie has undoubtedly the potential to bring about goodness--that the consequences of the lie are valued highly on the markers of goodness, however, this does not mean that the lie itself represents goodness, the meaning does not indicate that its consequences showed signs of goodness. The true, good liar has never taken his first breath, nor is there room for this form of man to enter our world.
People who pretend to represent goodness and produce lies in the name of goodness are deceivers, whose scam is not worth a breath. Whether man is in the community of the viewer, conflicts for his values or shares his ideology, the viewer should regard these people as impostors--scammers. Indeed, there is no way out for the chronic liar other than digging his own grave, the first lie being the first shovel, as man spreads his lies the grave is dug deeper and deeper--the more serious lies, the more powerful shovel. When the chronic liar realizes that he unconsciously dug his grave, it is essential for him to deliberately produce lies at high frequency, there is undoubtedly a risk of gargantuan proportion that he dug himself too deep into the ground to get out of the pit on his own. The earth in the grave becomes an abyss, and the abyss darkness, man's state of ruin, with the absence of light in the tunnel, there is little one man can walk: deeper down into the darkness, and along this path little strategy is left: continue lying. Man is now in the emotional darkness, he continues to lead a destructive liver, the true darkness is imminent, and to be consumed by his fierce jaws only a matter of time.
