And what...she is already your wife/girlfriend and you decided that this is the end of it…all...!? You took her for granted, you stopped noticing those small things that make her feel significant, beloved...You have decided that once she is in your home...on your bed...there is no need to fight for her any more...You come home in the evening and even forget to ask how the day went and, just the give the kiss as a duty...so passing time with her without emotion...So you are captivated by your thoughts and by the daily rush kicks you don't see at all that those sparks in your eyes are gone and the smile that lit up her face is gone... Yes, she is here in your home, but is she next to you with her soul?...Isn't she wandering in your thoughts?...Is she not looking for what she no longer receives from you?...And there comes a moment when you are startled and realize that something has broken...something is not the same...and again you are looking for the guilt in her..."What does she want...I give her everything...Don’t it?...But not at all...And all this happened slowly and gradually provoked by your indifference...The woman next to you just wants to feel significant...Believe her and it doesn't matter if you give her a gift for thousands of bucks…just not to bring a simple rose though you haven't forgotten that it exists... The woman next to you would prefer even just one flower, but accompanied by your attention, tenderness and presence...Yes, your presence in her life...Do you differentiate between being at home lying down on the couch apathetically every night, muttering against everything and everyone...and being really present in her life?....To share your fears and...to rejoice in the small successes in her life?...Because this is important for her...for both of you...Even if only to share your fears, torments, pains...it does not make you weaker in the eyes and...on the contrary...so she feels needed...needed and loved... Do not accept the woman next to you just as a mother of your children or as beautiful and practical furniture in your home...This will be the beginning of the end...and do not look for guilt in it...Do not shout, do not blame but think...Is it her eyes are filled with tears in the dark when no one sees...If so, she will seek attention elsewhere she feels happy...It is easiest to blame and condemn...It is difficult to keep this attitude in yourself this subtle note of flirtation between you two...Yes, it is so necessary for a woman to be by your side, body and spirit for life...Just to feel meaningful, wanted, loved...Love the soul of the woman next to you...flirt with her...Make her feel unique....And she would never betray you or turn her back...
