I always think that dating, marriage, romance has a beginning, middle and end. Like everything else in life.
I hate it when I overhear that conversation: - Ah, I broke up ... - Wow, they've been together for so long ... - Five years ... what a pity ... it's over ... - Yeah ... it didn't work out ...
Of course it did! It worked for five years, but it ended. And the good thing about life is that you can have several loves. Yes, several loves!
I do not believe in people who complement each other. I believe in people who add up. Sometimes you can't even give one hundred percent of yourself to yourself, how can you charge one hundred percent from the other? And we don't have that complete thing.
Sometimes she is faithful, but she is slow in bed. Sometimes he is affectionate, but he is not faithful. Sometimes he is considerate, but he is not well-established. Sometimes she is very beautiful, but she is not sensitive. All together, we will not find.
Realize which aspect is most important to you and invest in it. Skin is a treacherous beast. When you have skin with someone, you can be the most basic daddy with mommy that is delicious.
And sometimes you have that acrobatic sex, but it doesn't impress you ...
I think the kiss is important ... and if the kiss hits ... the end starts ... if it doesn't hit ... another episode, please ... yes, go for a walk.
If he or she doesn't want you anymore, don't push yourself. The other has the right not to want you.
Do not fight, do not care, do not get angry. If the person has doubts, it's their problem, and it's up to you to wait ... or not.
There are people who need the absence to want the presence. Make them feel the charms you have. The human being is not absolute.
He hesitates, he has doubts and fears, but if the person REALLY likes you, he comes back. No drama. How funny it is for someone to be on your side under pressure!
The cool scenario is when you find someone who is with you, just for you. And vice versa. Don't be with someone out of pity. Or for fear of loneliness. We were born alone. We die alone. We can live alone... Thank you, dear God!
Our thinking is ours, it is not shared. And when you wake up, the first impression is always yours,...your look, your thought.
There are people who jump from one novel to another. What is this fear of being alone, in your own company?
Liking hurts. You will often feel anger, jealousy, hatred, frustration ... It's a part of it. You live with another being, another world, another universe.
And things are not always as you would like them to be ... The worst thing is people who are afraid to get involved.
If someone comes with this conversation, run, after all you are not a therapist. If you don't want to get involved, date a plant. It is more predictable.
In life and in love, we have no guarantees. Not everyone who asks you out is to get married. Not every kiss is for romance. And not all good sex is to discard ... or fall in love ... or to blame yourself ... Love ... Sex ... Marriage ... Three strong feelings that can stay together or separately.
Anyway ... who said being an adult is easy?
