The Girl Who is the Vessel of Fortune

After being trapped for years in a terribly wrong relationship, when someone finally manages to break free, perhaps she must remain single for a long time afterward. Because then she can no longer easily trust anyone, and feels deeply afraid of getting entangled in another relationship.

During this period, loneliness weighs heavily. There's an inexplicable sense of profound sadness. At first, the suffering is intense. Sometimes she even feels like ending it all. But after a while, the woman begins to understand that she is now far better off than before. Living alone is much better than living with the wrong person. Most importantly, she no longer needs anyone else to keep herself happy. She has learned to be content on her own.

Then another phenomenon occurs. A woman who has once learned to live alone never again feels attraction toward anyone. She no longer wants to become emotionally dependent on another person. She no longer sees the need to trust anyone.

A woman who has weathered a great shock and learned to walk alone no longer easily feels emotion or love toward anyone. Once she learns to care for herself, she no longer needs to depend on anyone to survive. And she chooses not to depend on anyone.

The root cause is this: she never wants to return to that dark chapter again. Either she is afraid, or she simply doesn't care. She keeps thinking that she will again fall prey to some worthless, trivial person who will eventually discard her like used tissue paper. What's the point of wasting such a precious portion of life on such a person? Why deliberately invite suffering into one's life?

Today she no longer wants to turn her life into hell again for the wrong person. It took her far too long to escape from that previous hell, enduring needless pain. What if someone like that enters her life again? What if she has to cry like that again? What if she loses all meaning in living and feels compelled to rush toward death?

Yes, so she wants to live alone. She doesn't want to take any more risks. She is well now.

Does this mean she will truly never belong to anyone again? Will she spend the rest of her life alone like this?

No, that's not so.

Perhaps one day someone will enter her life who...

Will surrender all his attention to the woman's life with complete selflessness.
Will pour all his sincerity and effort into her without reservation.
Will understand her exactly as she is, will give her time, will stand by her.
Will never probe into the woman's past, will never judge her even by mistake, will erase all her pain and weariness at any cost.
Will always help her stay well, forget the past and live, do good things in life, and grow.
During her sad times, her moments of anguish, her doubts, insecurities, and crises, he will remain beside her like a friend, no matter what happens.

If someone can once win such a woman's love, he will experience the joy of conquering the world. The way such women can cherish, the way they can understand circumstances and reality, truly has no comparison. By keeping her well, one can remain well oneself. By keeping her unburdened, one can remain unburdened oneself. With her by one's side, even the impossible becomes possible.

Such a woman can increase your mental strength to an unbelievable degree in ways no one else can. At the same time, if you wrong such a person, the punishment she has the power to inflict is beyond your imagination. That punishment is so terrible that you will lose all desire to live.