Some Unpleasant Truths

 Let me tell you some unpleasant truths.
  
 Being beautiful doesn't guarantee someone will stay with you.
 Being honest doesn't guarantee someone will stay with you.
 Being trustworthy doesn't guarantee someone will stay with you.
 Treating someone well doesn't guarantee they will stay with you.
 Being willing to do anything for someone doesn't guarantee they will stay with you.
 Caring for someone with utmost sincerity doesn't guarantee they will stay with you.
 Trying your very best doesn't guarantee someone will stay with you.
 Giving someone your complete attention doesn't guarantee they will stay with you.
 Giving someone all the time they desire doesn't guarantee they will stay with you.
  
 Perhaps your intentions are admirable, your feelings pure, you are incomparable as a woman—even after all this, you might still fail to hold onto the person your heart desires. Do you know why?
  
 You can hold onto a man only when he himself wants it. Meaning he wants you to hold onto him. And if he doesn't want that, then you will truly fail to keep him, no matter how flawless and exceptional you may be!
  
 You cannot force someone to stay with you. There's no use begging like a beggar if they don't want to be with you themselves. No matter how much you love someone, if they don't want it themselves, you simply cannot make them love you! This is more or less the fate of one-sided love.
  
 When your relationship goes through some turbulence, if the person you cherish doesn't want to preserve the relationship himself, then he will sit back with arms folded; it's even possible that he will deliberately do exactly those things that will end your relationship. The relationship's struggles will only make his purpose easier. A man never fights for a woman he doesn't want to keep in his life. You will understand yourself when he doesn't want you to hold onto him. Even then, trying to hold on or stay becomes utterly meaningless.
  
 To put it simply: don't force someone to stay who doesn't want to be with you. No, this doesn't mean you're giving up. He himself is giving up, and understanding this, you should step away. You've already wasted considerable time—don't waste any more. The more time you waste, the more unnecessary suffering will accumulate in your life.
  
  
 When you're in a relationship with someone, you must keep three crucial things in mind:
 When to let them go from your life,
 When to remove yourself from their life,
 When to completely stop trying to hold onto them.
  
 The more you force, the more you try, the more you hold on, the more...you diminish your own self-respect. Nothing else will be gained beyond this.