Girl, I greet you!

A woman can manage household and children single-handedly while holding down a job—and she does. Women possess the ability to juggle multiple tasks simultaneously, yet men need only work their jobs while bearing no responsibility for home or children. (There are exceptions, but they never become the norm.)

I've seen men who merely provide financial support to their families—they don't even do the daily grocery shopping. So there's nothing left to prove about a woman's capabilities, but since we live in a diseased social system that considers only holding a job or providing money to the family as competence, when questions arise about women's abilities, it becomes logical for them to prove their worth.

I've rarely seen cases where, after a wife's untimely death, the husband chooses not to remarry and single-handedly manages work, household, and child-rearing. But look around us once—we'll find countless mothers who, after their husband's premature death, sacrifice all their happiness, even their basic needs, shoulder the entire family's responsibility alone, and raise their children single-handedly.

This society, some people in this society still repeatedly point fingers at women's capabilities, forcing them to prove their worth before letting up! From this society, women really ask for nothing except safety from the lustful gazes of some cowards. Though every woman and man has been created as complements to each other for survival itself, we seem to have forcibly forgotten this!

We've forgotten that when you sit down to define the boundaries of my sphere, I certainly have the equal right to do the same, and when that right begins to come from this side too, then you raise questions about women's capabilities! Not much to ask—just give your mother, your wife, your sister a month's leave from all her duties and try to survive in her place yourself, show that you as a man can equal a woman, because this very task your wife would naturally perform without excuses upon your untimely death!

We are all, in fact, devotees of the powerful and tyrants to the meek. When someone can endure the suffering you inflict, or when a person bears even inhuman torment, you begin expecting even more from them and cheapen their endurance, their acceptance. You keep hurling massive chunks of suffering at them, expecting them to accept it, to bear it, because they can! When a woman brings you happiness even by sacrificing all her desires, you consider it natural. Meanwhile, the poor woman shakes off even her minimal needs.

When a woman continues to bear your inflicted pain and eventually, exhausted, surrenders to herself, then suddenly one day roars in protest—you label this sudden rebellion as willfulness! A woman can choose to become willful at any point in life, because it's her individual right. The right to sometimes be willful, the right to live solely for oneself belongs not only to men but to every human being, including every woman.