Reflection: Five Hundred and Five
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26 November 2009
Girls like an intelligent young man
who is well-read and groomed but who is more interested in them than in
books… what a paradox!!
Friends!! I’m back…. So far as
I’ve experienced, most of the girls suffer from an ethical dilemma and create a
complex situation often involving an apparent mental conflict between moral
imperatives, in which they usually obey one resulting in transgressing the
others…. Such an ethical admonition to is not always just in contrast with,
yet sometimes in contradiction to degrade the moral spirit actively trying to
kill their soul, heart or, the said poor young man’s thinking….. They often
have the conflict between a moral injunction and a duty that cannot be
fulfilled without violating that injunction…. lolzz…
Oooof!! an essay!!!! Substance I ‘ve
understood…..LOLzzzz
… To put simply, most of the young
girls make a mess between ‘the art of living’ & ‘the art of loving’…
Intellect is a tasty thing for them not to be tasted ever!!…. They like to be
in an illusion that allusively becomes their destiny….
I think you are trying to draw them
as hypocrite…we should never mix up between sacrifice and hypocrisy…
…. I’d suggest you to kindly read
my previous comments more carefully… I’m afraid I couldn’t convey you what I
intended to express….
SP, have you read the Ramayana?
… Hmm… The tragedy of Ram
cloaked in so-called Heroism (apparent)……..
SP, as always, I am late bloomer in
your comments.. I think it’s critical to find a balance between love of books
and love of your life…. books are great companion but then we can suffer from
“no dialogue” syndrome :)…The difference between art of living and art of
loving is apparent… just one word; Living has “I” = ego; Loving has “O”
oneness…. this hold for all with egos… and I think you take the lead there, SP!!!
LOL!!! making statements about women “intellect is tasty…”
…” Living has “I” = ego;
Loving has “O” oneness “…. The best and simplest idea I’ve received ever
in this regard!!… too simple to be messed also!!. lol… Intellect is tasty
only for those who lack this intellect too much to sit idly for questing it
more, (lolzzzz….)… but most of the beautiful girls are intellectual enough
not to seek for it further, I wonder!!…. lolz…. Hmm…. “no
dialogue” problem is one of the reasons for which I often feel like
sharing my thoughts with someone who deserves this sharing….
27 November 2009
Never obey anyone’s command unless
it is coming from within you also…. There is no God other than life itself.
— Osho.
To become a nothingness is the door
to truth. Nothingness itself is the means, the goal and attainment.
Die each moment so that you can be
new each moment.
Do not search. That which is, is.
Stop and see.
“Let this truth go as deep in
you as possible: that life is already here, arrived. You are standing on the
goal. Don’t ask about the path.”
… Things are that they are, and
things will be that they will be… The law of nature that we can never
violate…
one should definitely believe in
what he or she is going to follow.
Sanjay… We’re what we think, not
we think what we’re…
“A little foolishness, enough
to enjoy life, and a little wisdom to avoid the errors, that will do.”
… I’ve the first one more than I
require, the second one less than I deserve… Will that do??
I disagree with the second half of
your last comment…….you deserve and have enough wisdom.
… All of us have enough wisdom,
but not enough intellect to discover it…
and to use it judiciously!
Yes, be a leader and not a follower
Sushanta!
SP my response to you is what you
responded to Sanjay “We’re what we think, not we think what we’re ”
should help you with the dilemma you have… what profound moment of “your
answer lies in your question” LOL
… I must learn how to follow
before learning how to lead… So, I’m trying consciously to follow the
commandments of others…
.. Hmm… The answers to all of our
questions usually lie in the contexts of our questions… So true…
… Please don’t crown a person
before he becomes the king…. lol…
well there are many desiring
kings………………….who never make it to the throne
often people teach that they need to
learn the most.
…..Sometimes to be crowned means
to be dethroned…..
27 November 2009
I know what I don’t want, but I
don’t know what I want!!… Serious psychological problem!…
I do often suffer from such
confusions or crisis myself….but don’t worry, you’ll survive it…like the
way I do
your name is so nice, it means eye
of a deer, right? My baby niece is called so. Sorry SP. who’s facing such
serious problem? you? Immediately meditate. It’ll help you to solve this
problem.
… I can feel it a problem as I
always like the way I follow…. But, as far as the world around me is
concerned, such a mental weakness is never a bliss….
… That Hamletian Complexity haunts
the brain of almost everyone….
… You’re a step ahead….
Congrats…!!…
Nowadays it is very clear even 2a
child that what does he/she want. why adults are facing sch prob? bizarre!!
…… It’s a good sign……you are
gonna b a scientist…. and the next your nobel prize winner will b u… and
the reason of your winning will be “to find the answer of a question: what
I want?”. Don’t worry bro… I’m just kidding….
…. I never take things
complicatedly; I take things as exactly as they appear before me… If I’m
wrong, you can blame my ignorance… I never try to make the simple things
complicated, and the complicated things simple… But I confess that sometimes
I’m too stupid to evaluate things correctly…
…. I believe the same,
but I’m quite confused about many things!… I often feel like doing
things that I’m not supposed to do….
One should know what he/she wants
and should also know the way to get it. It’s very easy, only the intention
should be clear.
…. We can talk about it hours
after hours, but hardly can get rid of the seemingly never-ending Hamletian
Complexity track!
Reflection: Five Hundred and Six
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4 December 2009
In case of love, knowledge is
silvery, experience is golden… I’ve an ocean of the 1st one, yet not even a
single drop of the second one!…
then how do you come to know
experience is golden??
… Dear friend, the persons who
commit suicide always know less about it than the persons who don’t!…. lol…
knowing more creates more
thinking…thinking more creates more paradox….let we try 2 know nothing…
… Ignorance is bliss as long as
you’re ignorant about your ignorance. Sometimes being ignorant about our
ignorance really becomes difficult!…
Don’t think about love – you’ll kill
it. Let it happen and let it flow…
how much you can know…?? you can
never less your ocean of ignorance…
… Love can never be killed!
… The more I know, the more I fear
my ignorance…
It can fade away for some time. Only
to bloom again, that is.
… Nothing fades away in this
world, everything just takes another shape. It’s natural. Our way of thinking
makes it so!
Not even a drop!
… I’m telling about Platonic Love
(I mean ‘affair’)….
Platonic or Socratic love can be so
many types SP!
… The course of love is too simple
a thing to understand!… Types of it just add some spices to it, but never
changes the course…
SP do you really understand it?
… We can never understand anything
really, just can improve our view on it eliminating some of our previous
follies….
SP disagree..
… I like disagreement… Just tell
me your view that makes you disagree with me…
SP and I like to disagree with you!
… I respect your likings! lol…
My friends tell me that I’m one of the most difficult persons to disagree
with!…
I agree to disagree with your
friends……..I have disagreed with you numerous times…
… I never mind at your
disagreement as you agree to disagree with me only for disagreement’s sake, not
for any other purpose else!… lol…
… How are you? How is the carriage of life rolling along?
…Just think once,
how much happier you are than those
whose life-carriages have ground to a halt in time’s whirlpool!
SP, I disagree because our trains of
thought go to different stations!
SA… Sometimes the trains also
reach the wrong stations…
Admitting, yours is wrong…
Admit it, Sushanta…
SA… In case of love, the train of
my life reaches the station I want… And I’m not young enough to make the
train reach any wrong station, I can tell it for sure…
Oh really!! SP!
I need to think now!!! SP…
Silence?
Just when I thought you were
lost…I love this quote…may I copy it?
SA… Didi, what should you think
now? I couldn’t understand it.
.. ‘Just when I thought you were
lost’… what does it mean?…. Anyway, if my words seem treasurable to you,
please feel free to treasure them. I’d rather feel honoured to have a friend
who likes to share the common feeling with me…
Lost in the sense…….haven’t seen
you around especially with your love quotes..!! And yes, few of your quotes are
awesome! Hugs
By Jove, he does not get it!
… I stopped posting love quotes as
just I wanted to let my thoughts flow towards some other streams as well…
…. Thanks for your appreciation… Anyway, did you treasure any of my
previous words posted as my status messages? If you did, it would be a great
pleasure to collect them from you… Hugs!!
SA… I’m not young enough to get
every word! Please, help me get it…
I am younger SP!
SA… Your thoughts make you feel
younger than you actually are…
16 December 2009
Open all the windows……wipe away the tears from your eyes, on such a joyous day there should be no weeping…..
…joy mingled with sorrow…
Greetings to everyone on the 37th
anniversary of the Victory day in Bangladesh.
…your warm greetings from so far away have filled this heart and soul with a strange delight….thank you so much…
Brother Sushanta,
I am far away, true enough, but my heart always yearns for the country and its people…………..today is the Bengalis’ pride,
‘Victory Day’. The blood-streams of heroic freedom fighters, the tears of women who lost husbands and children,
the corpses of the country’s finest sons—the intellectuals—and the honor of countless mothers and sisters: in exchange for all this, after nine months of war, we received this glorious ‘Victory Day’.
This day is our day of victory, our day of glory, and our day of pride.
Thank you. You accepted my greetings with an open heart and sent such a beautiful acknowledgment. Stay well. We shall always remain in touch.
This is the best compliment I’ve
ever get.
……. The excellence of a
compliment always depends on the way we receive it. So, the credit often goes
to the receiver!… Thanks for the sincerity…
To be trusted is a greater
compliment than being loved.
Both of them are the most yearned
for treasure!
No rally came out from your coaching center today?
I don’t march in Victory Day rallies,
though I feel the urge to on February twenty-first.
Reflection: Five Hundred and Seven
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19 December 2009
Miserably, most beautiful girls are
not intelligent, and most intelligent girls are not beautiful… Friends! Do
you agree? or, Not?
Usually, meritorious girls are not
lovely and lovely girls are not meritorious in most cases…
I met many intelligent girls in my
life, but sadly enough, I could hardly look on them other than my younger
sisters!…. …. That’s why I’m still ‘Alone, alone, all alone in the grey
ocean of my life’….
Again, I met many lovely girls too
charmingly (!) dumb to even think about!….
Hmm…. There are some exceptions,
but I strongly believe that most of those precious exceptional girls fall
victims to matrimony-mismatch case, I mean, they hardly meet matched deserving
precious exceptional boys….. Tragedy of mismatch in marriage mostly occurs in
such cases…. Quite DISAPPROVING!!
Well SP said in Jest that makes
sense……where the man is dumb and that is the case most of the times and the next
gen is brought up by the woman…But frankly I am disappointed to the core
about your view…….or maybe it’s just that no girl finds you appealing enough
and it’s a case of sour grapes.
…. ‘Educated Illiterate!’ Too
charming a compliment even to regret!….. Anyway, sorry, I’m still on the way
to be ‘educated’….. ‘Illiterate?’ Okay, fine. Literacy is optional for me,
rather consciousness about things around me is mandatory….
…. I firmly believe that boys and
girls shouldn’t be such tasty foods to be appealing…. There are other ways as
well to judge a person…. It’s better to live alone than to live with a wrong
person….
actually, beauty doesn’t have
anything to do with intelligence……….but the good-looking ones get carried
away, and do un intelligent things. and try to encash on beauty rather than
brains
And who is to judge the wrong from
right? And all of us need to understand that we can’t have all the best in one
person. There are few good and few bad things about us that makes us human
….. By the way, smart look of the
dumb girls can miserably make the handsome boys dumb…. The vice versa case
happens rarely…
…. Hmm… We need not judge the
persons… Every person is already a masterpiece…… But, let not a clash
among the God-gifted masterpieces spoil the discourse of thought. Proper
Judgement highly sought for!….. lol…
The average woman would rather have
beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can
think….
Hmm, you’re quite right. How many things we must say to console ourselves!
…. Dost, I hardly say what I’m
supposed to say, rather what I feel like saying, you know it better!…
… The fact is, most of the girls
make most of the boys be average!…lol… Anyway, we hardly walk the rest of
our life with someone whom we can see only, not think about. So, let the girls
be smartly presentable in all respects.. ……
In case of girls, beauty is often
seen to have to do little with brain… But brain is often found to do much for
beauty…. Please, be acknowledged that I’m referring to the total aspect of
beauty…
…. Thanks for acknowledging the
dumbness of some women!…lol… Men like to dumb in such cases, you know…
…. I wonder whether you don’t
belong to that so-called intelligent ‘ladies-group’!… After all, honestly
speaking, I’m enjoying your company in the midst of this inanity of
mine!….lol…
…. Ahem, ahem! I’m ready to meet
death even long before reaching that cerebral orgasmic stage (!), if I find
some Aishwariya as my life partner!….lol…
.. Little Extra!…. Lies even sound
sweeter when told sweetly!… :)…
Proved once again!
Sushant: If men like to be dumb,
that’s because they can’t opt for anything above that level…. BEWARE!!! you
are already on that brink… LOL
Huh….MB? nah MV….it is!! Well I
was just trying to be modest SP and well no harm in that!
…. Hmm… You’re a woman and so,
if you like me to be on that brink, I’ve no problem, I’ll be there….. But,
just don’t fall a victim to my pretense-trap!…lol… Could I make it clear?
…. Ok Meena, let it be ‘MV’!
Thanks God, there’s no ‘T’ in the middle!…. Lol….just kidding!… BTW, why
should you try to be something if you’re already it?….lol…
Not agreed. Example- Aishwarya
rai…….
…. She married Avishek not
marrying me…. How can she still be called intelligent?…lol…
Yawn…right! SP.. the one Man that
is God’s Gift to the poor women kind!
…………….there is nothing
like having sex with a matured intelligent beautiful woman.
… That utopian scheme is hardly accessible, yet highly adorable!…. If you have this already, I salute you, Sir!
I am the lucky and the fortunate one
Sushanta
SK… Even the Gods will envy you!
am humbles…………………………..hope you aren’t making fun of me
SK….. How can I dare, Sir? I congratulate you on your fortune….
thanks a ton Sushanta……………………plz pray for us.
Best of the rest of your conjugal life… .
thanks Sushanta……completed 25…………………25 to go.
Your conjugal life. Let it extend over 25!
….. If someone considers a person ‘a God’s gift’, that’s the person’s fortune… If the person doesn’t consider the same, that’s the someone’s misfortune! I can tell you this from my personal experience…. BTW, was your previous comment a generalization, or something conforming to our discussion? None can ever regret your company, honestly!
21 December 2009
It’s a great fun to scold the girls over phone…
Can’t agree with the above statement!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
… The above statement is rather sarcastic; not to be regarded seriously, however. I just shared the tribulations that I’ve undergoing for the last few days. Don’t take it otherwise, please… But, I can tell you for sure that girls could be awfully disgusting, my own experience. They even sometimes try to extort love! Isn’t it miserable?
I think it’s a revenge, isn’t it?
… Revenge comes only after the chance of being vindictive, doesn’t it? I’m dumb enough to miss the chance….lol…
21 December 2009
Stupidity is not my inheritance, it’s my acquisition. So, how can it leave my ‘masterpiece brain’ so easily? It makes me enjoy things what I’m not supposed to!
STUPID (Smart Talented Unique Person In Demand) is also a gift of God.
… Stupidity is always a celestial bliss….. Let’s not be too stupid to blur this acquisition….lol…
Friends!…… By the way, I can tell you all for sure that I never regret my stupidity, I enjoy every bit of it…
to me “where is stupidity there is creativity”
and if you observe you’ll see that maximum creative people in the world were & are stupid. And it’s a matter of great sorrow that Bangladesh lacks creative people.
So…..be creative…..be stupid &
enjoy your own world.
A good man can be stupid and still
be good. But a bad man must have brains. ~ Maxim Gorky.
…. Stupidity is a wonderful thing.
It reveals your worth before you when you lose something that you deserve. It
pays most enabling you learn how to stumble and seek for the right path. I’m
learning these from my life. It is showing me the light that I should’ve
discovered long before in my life… Let there be light, let there prevail
stupidity!
Every man is like a coin with two
facets of stupidity & brilliance!
…. Not every man, some remain too
stupid to reveal their light of thought, I mean brilliance….and gradually
start enjoying their charming (!) stupidity….
Stupidity can be perished away very
easily when you can arrange a chronological ordering of evil deeds inside you
and notice how complicated list has been made. Man, whatever his mentality is,
never longs for complexity. And simplicity never consists of stupidity.
…. Dear brother, I’m clever enough
(I mean, stupid enough) to make simple things complicated, and complicated
things better than the worst they could be!… lol… I tried many times to
categorize my deeds as good or, evil, but hardly could make my attempts see the
light of hope as I found nothing worth of designating as ‘evil’…. The problem
is, I often suffer from Hamletian Complexity and for that very reason, I often
fail to delineate a comparative picturesque between good and evil!…. A major
Psychological Problem I often get tempted to undergo!….lol…
our own acts are never evil or good
in our imagination & judgement!
it is our friend’s assessment that
makes our acts evil or good!
…. Sir, is there anything called
‘good’ or, ‘evil’ in the view of absolutism, I wonder… Everything is reshaped
in perspective of our inclination and thought… Here brain is the workshop, I
firmly believe it…
you are right! nothing is good or
evil! Someone’s food may be poison for other.
Drinking blood may be necessity
& an act of kindness for Drakula, yet this act may look evil to you &
me!
Now, the problem is, the ongoing
phenomena often break the norms of relativity and tend to adopt absolutism.
Here we’re often too hapless to deny what we don’t feel like accepting…..
Reflection: Five Hundred Eight
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1 January 2010
Friends! Believe it or not, it’s
true!… I went to bed in 2009 and amazingly woke up in 2010… I slept for
just 19 years less than Rip Van Winkle did!… The Rip Van Winkle of the
present time wishes you a gorgeous 2010 ahead!!
Hello dear friends!… Thanks a lot
for your nice comments…. Let’s be happy and make others happy…. Let’s have
joy, let’s have fun…. Let’s sing together the song that has yet remained
unsung…. Let’s speak for those who can’t speak…. Let’s see for those who fear
to see…. Let’s dream of the world that nobody could ever dream of….
Cheers!!….
12 January 2010
Friends! Do you think that nowadays
Corruption has become another name of Careerism?
Dear friends! Thank you very much for
expressing your personal views on my status message…… In the existing
socio-economic set-up, where the worth of a person is largely measured by
materialistic achievement, even the question of being ethical in one’s career
is regarded as redundant. Yet, such demoralization degrades the individual’s
personality and proves fatal to mobilizing the development wheels of the
country… I firmly believe that the financial security of high officials
should be ensured first in conformity with merit-based standards. And then the
sense of self-respect needs to be uplifted with a clear conscience of
obligation and responsibility towards society… If a person isn’t valued
properly on the basis of the status they truly deserve, corruption can never be
stopped… Some ideal models of national policy-making should be introduced as
well.
13 January 2010
I think… It’s better to be a
first-class citizen of a second-class country than to be a second-class citizen
of a first-class country… Friends! Do you agree? or, Not?
Dear friends! I value highly all of
your precious comments and honestly speaking, I got some crystal-clear ideas to
be more committed to uplifting the fame of our country…
But I must mention here that
probably some of you grasped the point wrongly (or, I confess, I’ve failed to
make it precise to you). I just tried to convey that…
…. It is better to reign in Hell
than to serve in Heaven… ( And I have the firm conviction that our life is
too short to pass it in just compromising rather than living the life we were
born for)… Have I been able to make the sense clear now?…. (I beg your
pardon if I’ve infused the conflict between Orientalism and anti-orientalism
into your thoughts)… Please let me know if you have any further queries about
my standpoint… Thank you…
এই এসপির লেখা বাক্যের শব্দের দিকে না গিয়ে আসুন। অর্থটা একদম পরিষ্কার এবং আবেগে ভেসে যাওয়া উচিত নয়। কেন শুধু দ্বিতীয় শ্রেণী….পুরো বিশ্ব তাদের ‘তৃতীয় বিশ্বের দেশ’ বলে ডাকে….তাহলে তারা দ্বিতীয় শ্রেণীর ক্যাটেগরিতেও আসে না। আর এই শ্রেণীকরণটা হয় ‘মাথাপিছু আয়’ বা ‘সেই দেশগুলোর অগ্রগতি’র ভিত্তিতে…..মানুষের আবেগের ভিত্তিতে নয়।
এসপি যা লিখেছে তার সাথে আমি পুরোপুরি একমত। আবেগ বাদ দিয়ে, আমরা সবাই ‘১ম বিশ্বের’ বিদেশী দেশে যাই নিজেদের জন্য টাকা কামাতে বা ভালো জীবনযাত্রার জন্য, দেশকে সাহায্য করতে নয়। ব্যক্তিগতভাবে আমি ২৪টিরও বেশি দেশে গেছি এবং ৯০% ক্ষেত্রে নিশ্চিতভাবে বলতে পারি যে হ্যাঁ….বাইরের মানুষদের দীর্ঘ সময়ের জন্য স্বাগত জানানো হয় না। আমরা সেখানে গিয়ে তাদের চাকরি খেয়ে ফেলি….কম বেতনে কাজ করি ইত্যাদি। অথবা মধ্যপ্রাচ্যের দেশগুলোতে যেখানে তারা সব কালোদের শ্রমিক হিসেবে চেনে। একই কাজের জন্য সাদা চামড়া কালোদের চেয়ে ৩ গুণ বেশি পায়।
হ্যাঁ…আমি ‘১ম বিশ্বে’ যাওয়ার চেয়ে আমার ‘৩য় বিশ্বের ভারতে’ থাকতে পছন্দ করি। জঙ্গলে একটি বাঘ প্রতিটি খাবারের জন্য সংগ্রাম করে যতটা খুশি থাকে, চিড়িয়াখানায় খাঁচাবন্দী বাঘ কোনো চেষ্টা ছাড়াই সব কিছু পেয়ে তার চেয়ে কম খুশি থাকে……. কিন্তু সমস্যা হলো আমি যা পছন্দ করি তা পাই না। শুধু টাকা আর কোম্পানির বাধ্যবাধকতার জন্য আমাকে বিদেশী অ্যাসাইনমেন্ট নিতে বাধ্য করা হয়।
শুভেচ্ছা, সুশান্ত, তোমার সাহসী এবং নতুন চিন্তাভাবনার জন্য। কোন মাপকাঠিতে একটি দেশকে প্রথম, দ্বিতীয় বা তৃতীয় শ্রেণীর বলা হয় এবং কোন দেশকে নৈতিকভাবে প্রথম শ্রেণীর দেশ বলা যেতে পারে সে বিষয়ে আমি একাডেমিক বিতর্কে যাচ্ছি না। তবে তোমার মন্তব্যের পিছনের নীতিটি সর্বজনীনভাবে বৈধ হওয়া উচিত – নিজের দেশের প্রথম শ্রেণীর নাগরিক হওয়া উচিত।
একটি দুঃখজনক বাস্তবতা অবশ্য অস্বীকার করা যায় না। তথাকথিত তৃতীয় শ্রেণীর দেশের অনেক মানুষ মূলত ব্যক্তিগত লাভের জন্য তথাকথিত প্রথম শ্রেণীর দেশের নাগরিকত্ব নেয়। লাভ অনেক রকমভাবে ব্যাখ্যা করা যায় এবং এতে কিছু খারাপ নেই! কিন্তু যেটা খারাপ তা হলো এই মানুষদের বেশিরভাগই স্বার্থপর কারণে এই তথাকথিত প্রথম শ্রেণীর দেশগুলোর দ্বিতীয় শ্রেণীর নাগরিক হয়ে থাকতে সন্তুষ্ট থাকে!
…. I salute both of you for
providing us with a such clear vision. Here the first-class or, second-class
designation is something that was imposed on our shoulders by the Colonial
Masters who reigned this sub-continental region and subsequently thrived upon
stealing our intellectual and material resources and gained the present status.
History bears this testimony. And I never deem it a proper commitment to my
motherland that I take everything from here that I need to serve a foreign
country. It’s often self-denial and most often suicidal (though some others
might term it as a better deal for a so-called better life-style). The
intentionally created Orientalism notion is just to exploit us by taking
advantage from the pool of cheap labour. The strategy of globalization sounds
soothing, yet it always promises high return to the capitalist countries. The
rich get richer, the poor poorer.
… A lion striving for survival in
the jungle is far happier than the lion in the cage getting everything ready
without the least effort….so true!….
…. I think people who claim to be
contented are foolishly complacent as they just try to compromise with their
life and pretend to be contented….
What’s the use to convincing the
West about our worthwhile it’s already proved in our own country? I don’t know
whether I sound offensive. But, to be honest, I always think that it is
agreeable that we go abroad for a better exposure and a greater professional
orientation, then we must serve the nation to fulfil our solemn commitment to
our motherland to which we owe a lot. A lion never welcomes another lion
(little matters even if the second one is mightier) …. So, it’s better to
reign in a so-called Hell than to serve in a seemingly Heaven! Thank you.
Reflection: Five Hundred and Nine
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20 January 2010
Even an idiot has his own excuses to
be an idiot!
You can never bet the excuses of an
idiot unless you’re an idiot or, pretend to be an idiot… I can tell you this
from my personal experience.
Sony… Hmm… There exists a close
relationship between stupidity and knowledge. Both of them have no limit. I’m
sure of the first one, but not fully sure of the second one…
… That’s great! I hardly need to
pretend, it comes spontaneously in my case!…lol..
SP where is the love gone?
what’s wrong with you now?
ARE you UPSET BY SOMEONE?
An idiot is an idiot just because he
always looks for excuses to be stupid!
if one can be stupid deliberately,
then he or she is real STREET SMART
… Don’t use the word ‘seem’ here,
it’s rather confusing! They’re really stupid….lol…
… Love is in my heart, can’t you
find it? Love is the most approving stupidity!
… I’m too difficult a person to be
upset, I can bet! Feeling upset is often compulsory, being upset is rather
optional.
… Hmm.. He is very clever at being
an idiot!
… Just to be an idiot, buddy!
To discuss stupidity is the work of the truly stupid.
… Thank you for joining the
discussion. Take care… (hahahahaha….)
… There lies a charm in being an
idiot deliberately. A smart stupid often seeks for stupid excuses to be
smart!…lol…
Every few days, just empty noise!
… As that fellow says,
you know,
“An empty vessel sounds….”
……firstly welcome back. we were
mising you……………………..yes being dump and acting stupid is great
at times, at home, with kids and with friends……………………but acting
stupid smartly is a double crime!!
…. Thanks a lot for your note of
welcome…. DOUBLE CRIME!!….. Very well-said…. But, in this case, I’d like
to mention that a crime isn’t a crime at all until others find it
disapproving… So, it’s found very easy to play that DOUBLE GAME!! (I mean
DOUBLE CRIME)…. Hahahahaha.
smart acting dumb………and dumb
acting smart…………………both unwanted situations.
…… I think, the fact is, dumb
persons often act smart only because they are dumb, while smart persons often
act dumb only because they are smart…
23 January 2010
If you miss the train I’m on, you
will know that I’m gone….. You can hear the whistle blow a hundred
miles……
I am five hundred miles from my
home.
… No problem, go back 500 miles,
you’ll be at your home again! (where are you now?)
In real. I’m in train right now
… After a long time, I’m hearing
from you. Have a nice journey by train..
Thank you dear. btw where were you
gone? I was missing u a lot
…. I feel very fortunate to hear
that I’ve my friends who miss me a lot. … Take care…
Soma Robin Me too. I mean, missed
you a lot. where have you been?
… How can the train move forward
if I’m not on? I’m just showing my sweetheart a destination to reach… A path
to walk on… …. Thanks for your sweet note…. Take care.
… I can never go away, you know.
I’m always in your heart…. You can feel the pleasure of missing of someone
only when he/she is away….
25 January 2010
Never show your talent to a person
with power but without brain. He might abuse his power to utilize your
talent… Pity for such a person!!
Friends! I can tell you this for
sure from my personal experience…
talented ones are not such foolish I
think!
… Sometimes circumstances compel
you to be foolish. You have no options left!
you are right paul bro…
… They are just the worms of Hell!
If every door of your hope closes,
then open the windows of mind and help get some fresh air in. It will bring
some new anticipation, new dreams to live. For me, it is nothing but
expectation that keeps me still alive…..while walking, I often look at the
star twinkling or the sun shining. Looking at the ground reminds me where I am!
But Suman Chaterjee sang- hal cherona bondhu, borong kontho charo jore, dekha
hobe tomay amay onontokal pore…
… Tribulations that you don’t
deserve are often a type of tyrannical traps.
… It’s not a crime if you’ve no
power of thinking. It’s a crime if you compel a person to think for you…..
Your words came to me as some raindrops in a desert-land…. It’s very
difficult to pretend to be ordinary for conducting with an ordinary person. An
ordinary person can hardly tolerate an extraordinary person.
I agree with the above-mentioned
sentences.
… I’ve learnt these from my own
life… Such manners really hurt…
…u have company here…I have been
a prey to such exploitation myself too!!
Buddy, such unjust happens every time.
and we had nothing to do against those crack-heads.
… A fight between a dull-headed
powerful person and a meritorious humble is really very miserable. But the fact
is, the powerful stupid persons often compel you fight only to show their
pitiable power…. It’s nothing but weakness in the guise of power!!
SP, to your original thought. even
if the powerful brainless person takes away your idea.. the fact still remains
that you are intelligent and he is not….. yes……. he may win the short race…
but he is of no substance and will fall…….he needs you more than you need him 🙂
you on the other hand will raise in every occasion by being effortlessly
talented. Every encounter in life teaches you a lesson so don’t pity that
person……..he is placed in your life to teach you……..Learn don’t judge. This
attitude will change everything around you…that is my experience in life and
trust me it got me exactly where I wanted to be in the corporate ladder and in
ladder of life…
……. “he needs you more than
you need him”….. “Learn don’t judge”…… some really
precious gifts in the guise of some wonderful words I must treasure…. I
confess, I couldn’t even think so… I’m just speechless at your magical
positive thinking!! Really thoughts show the way we are in………..
….. disastrous talent is hardly
approving…. what’s the use of the talent that fails to create the charm it
should?…………….Thanks…..
29 January 2010
I walked on the wall of darkness,…
Love made its journey to my soul,… I wonder I hardly noticed its pace,…
Only discovered its essence in the silent music of darkness!
These lines have been adopted from
my poetry titled, ‘Broken Appointments of Love’…
… This poetry is available in the
‘notes’ section. Please access it from there if you consider it worthy of
reading… Thank you!
love can neither be seen nor
heard…….it can just b felt.
hey hi buddy.. how you doing?? long
time.. btw, nice poetry!! 🙂
🙂
… I’m fine, buddy! How are you,
dear friend? Thanks a lot for the eulogy… Take care….
Feeling love is seeing or, hearing
it! Thanks.
I recognized it… These are my
fav… Nice share…
… Dear sister, I feel very
honoured to know that you’ve read my poetry and happy to hear that these lines
are your favourite… I also like these ones the most of all the lines of
‘Broken Appointments of Love’… Thank you very much…
Reflection: Five hundred and ten
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3 February 2010
The parents and the university
teachers should watch the movie ‘3 Idiots’… They often forget that Dreaming
is never Compromising.
Most of us are ordinary only because
we once compromised with our dream… I still can hardly believe that I’m a
Computer Engineer.
Most of the parents think that a
good student of Science stream must be a doctor or, an engineer. How silly and
funny!
But what did you want to be??
I wanted to study Literature. And, I
can bet my parents would never have regretted if they had not killed my dream!
But you can still study literature
on your own at home and write books ,make blogs……
It’s not a big deal Sushanta…..you
can follow your dream:)
education minister of India should
watch it too
He has watched and didn’t give
importance….ministers are like that only.
… For this very reason, I think,
most of us lead a prestigious ordinary (!) life…
… That’s true, more than it is
daunting our traditional society that values a certificate more than the
certificate-holder!
… Our policy-makers either don’t
have brain or, lack the power to use their brain!
We friends are exceptional
Sushanta….we value our friends whether they have any certificate or
not….Only they should understand the language of friendship:)
… When some people become
exceptional, others often follow them and exceptionality gets lost!….lol…
Friends! I think, you can only marry
but can never place anyone in your heart if you’re in love with someone else…
… I adore your fortune. My dreams
shattered into pieces long before flying…
YES SP, follow your dreams and
success HAS to follow… trick is the honesty and commitment to your dream… 3
idiots was made in the same tone as of Steve Jobs 2005 commencement speech at
Stanford university… I can’t hear enough of it……every time I hear it I’m
inspired and MORE COMMITTED TO MY DREAMS.. Dreams are not just during
youth…..it’s never too late to dream… dream… dream…. dream enough and its
reality…. make it your reality….and ONLY YOU CAN MAKE IT… SO,
DREAM!!!!!!!!!!!!
………On the sandbanks of my dreams, that sunlight calls to me
yet remains beyond my grasp……..that arrogant light seems to play in your shadows,
lulling me with false hopes………..
… You always speak far far better
than I even dare dream, I confess my limitations honestly! Nevertheless,
whenever I go through your comments or emails, I sincerely feel the urge to
learn to dream, I’m too humble even to dream in that way though. Now, I must
strive to materialize my dreams (after all, I must try to do this if I want to
pay the least tribute to your suggestion). I watched the clip you sent me and
to be honest, I just can’t tolerate my helplessness anymore, perhaps I deserve
the better as your beloved younger brother. I must touch that rainbow of dream
that you explored once if you’re by my side..
… Sir, pessimistically enough, the
Government strategy is almost the same in this sub-continent! We need to rise
ourselves to bathe in the light on the other side of the tunnel…
… I’m very fortunate as I’ve
friends who always show me the golden line of a dreamy cloud that I even don’t
deserve to touch, let alone float…..
… Hahaha… You’ve made me feel
for the first time the value of my molecular (!) poetries (or,
rhymes?)!!…lol…
SP… I am firmly by your side…
Dream brother… honestly and with total commitment… We have our thoughts /
dreams।……..these are far more powerful than anything we can think
of…Am ahead of you to show you direction… Besides you to give you
company… Behind you to push you when you feel like giving up…dive in bro…
… It’s a great advantage to
discover a pioneer to follow, a rare fortune to hear a promise of unconditional
mental support. Giving up hopes is really difficult for me if you’re by my
side… I never felt in the way you showed me, I’ll ever remember your words of
experience; too tough for me to abide by, even though….my honest
confession….
but these multiple boards, different
teaching patterns, pressure and the stress on entrance exams is having the kids
real royally.
….. Sir, being at top in the merit
list doesn’t necessarily place anyone at the top status regarding lifestyle.
People are still too ignorant to realize…. ‘France was saved by her
idlers’… We just read this saying for the sake of reading, hardly dare grasp
its inner meaning….
totally agree….students just don’t
study for 10, 11 and 12…they only do coaching fo entrance exams….foundation
and application I so poor
Reflection: Five Hundred Eleven
……………………………………………………
6 February 2010
To Love and to be Loved are the most
wonderful lessons that we can learn from Nature…
What’s a true love? Well, I can get
a number of answers, yet most of them aren’t worth-mentioning, in my
consideration… I can cite only one answer that pleased me most… True love
never demands two words: Thank you and Sorry (collected from…. ‘Love Story’
by Eric Segal… the most touching romantic novel I’ve ever read)….. I might
be wrong as I don’t have any personal experience, so I’d sincerely welcome your
suggestion in this regard….lol…
8 February 2010
It is better to be beautiful than to
be good, but it is better to be good than to be ugly.
Few more days to Valentine’s why not
pen some love poems…..rather than have mind twisting stuff.
… You can never be a good
Valentine if you lack the sense of humour… So, let’s say YES to presence of
mind…
SP……if all the valentines the
males were to say this to their Valentines………I don’t think we would be
celebrating this day with Pink and red……..more with black and blue.
You are in the queue, Please wait…you
are in the queue please wait….a standard recorded nasal voice heard. Jokes
apart……..give me a reason for accepting you.
… Hmm… The main difference is,
others tell it to me to pour a shower in my desert of solitude… You tell it
as you can’t see the desert, so, just can show me the mirage…
One of my favorite “Oscar
Wilde” quote! Thanks for sharing, though.
… Oscar Wilde is the wittiest
author I’ve ever read….
… I like most his short stories…
‘The importance of being earnest’ is one of his writings that I must recommend
here…
I think…what is beautiful is good
and who is good will soon also be beautiful.
… A thing of beauty is good only
because it’s beautiful…. (How are you? How’s your preparation going on?)
SP that is utter nonsense…about a
thing of beauty is good only if it’s beautiful….on wht basis do you draw such
inane conclusion? Please…..we have enough divides on race, gender, color
nationality etc..
… I like your seriousness about my
nonsense comment… … I like your beautiful mind, more than your beautiful
face….
Well Now you are my Valentine…Will
you come here to serenade me? Mind is what matters SP looks can be created by
the help of cosmetics or good Doctor’s. Hugs…will wait to be serenaded.
… Hmm… If I serenade, you must
be alone in a dark room lit with a candle… I’ll be there to offer you a
candle-light dinner… Perhaps, I’ve started dreaming (or, have made you
dream!)…. Leave it, dear!… The crude reality is, another solitary
Valentine’s Day is awaiting me……… I should look forward to discovering
some reasons to find heavenly bliss in solitude!…. Friends! Can you show me
some reasons to be happy alone?
Oh that was absolute sweet and I
don’t mean it as cliched. For all that you know I am gonna be alone since my
Soul may travel…..I will pamper myself. And SP go on by yourself to the
Beach…I heard your country has some lovely Beaches…And there is bliss in
all the states…All in the Mind.
Show me the meaning of being
lonely…. I often hum this song of Backstreet Boys these days whenever I
helplessly imagine another solitary Valentine’s Day…..
awwwwwwwwwwwwww….SP…can feel the
craving in you. Don’t worry…I will keep you busy with crazy stuff on Feb 14..
… My country has an exquisitely
touching beach… Cox’s Bazar…the longest sea-beach in the world….. My soul
also travels even faster than I let it do!… That’s a rare gift I’m blessed
with, I adore this celestial light….. Better to live alone than to live with
a wrong person…. I always strongly abide by some strong principles and that’s
why, springs of my life go on and on leaving me in a seemingly never-ending
queue…..which ends only in eternity!
… Being really busy is more
enjoyable than pretending to be busy (especially in this regard!)…. Anyway,
thanks for your promise.
… I think beauty comprises a wide
range of faculties… Mind… Brain.. Appearance. And, unlike popularly
believed, I firmly oppose to the idea of counterbalancing of the above-stated
three notions….. A good face is always the best passport of recommendation…
I actually don’t agree, when people say that beauty is skin deep……….yes, the inner actual beauty is skin deep, but to reach it, appearance and looks or external beauty are important. If we have to start a conversation with two unknown people, one will naturally choose the better looking one……………………….but yes, beauty is a complex blend of looks, nature, character and above all the attitude of the person towards you and the cerebral synergy!
….. Thanks for disagreeing, but I humbly and sincerely would like to inform you that what you’ve stated in your previous comment coincides with my thought… A good face is the best letter of recommendation, I repeat, Sir!…. Our appearance always pays firstly to draw the first impression, to stand high in midst of the overwhelming crowd….
10 February 2010
Better being sad than being happy when you are not ready to feel happiness…
We can never be happy or, sad in the truest sense. It’s our feeling that works here…
What’s happiness? Let’s not define it… What’s sorrow? Let’s not define it… Let’s feel them from within to see the result without!
Being sad can be our destiny, but feeling it or not is our choice… …
The Secret of Happiness is not to seek it… You might seek happiness in a Walk in the Rain, yet feel it in Dancing in the Twilight (which might remain unknown to you in your whole life)… In my case, I might discover its touch in the first one, this depends on our mind set-up… No universal definition could ever reveal any clue to it….
Unlike as popularly believed, I think Sorrow and Happiness are never the opposite sides of the same coin… They’re just two different feelings… What we like to feel, it’s upon us… Neither of them are obligatory…
but we are forced to wear a mask most of the time.
… None can force us unless we feel forced!… A mask can hardly hide the person if the person is reluctant to hide himself… That’s the way in which others find ‘the you’ within you!
…. And the way you’re travelling in is the Secret to be happy… What’s the use of being happy selfishly not caring for others?… Making others happy is the most acclaimed rule to bring individual happiness… It’s better to see some smiling faces around than just to see yours in the mirror…
…. That’s the Secret of happiness
everyone should follow… Being clustered by small incidents of happiness leads
to a great feeling of happiness within… 🙂
life is like path of sand. and these
happy moments are the silver grains in the sand, that make it beautiful.
The secret of a happy life!
11 February 2010
To tell a lie is not a sin, but to
tell a lie without mastering how to tell a lie is a sin…
These days I’m trying to master the
art of telling lies… Friends! Believe me… It’s an amazingly funny
experience, once you learn one, ten more is learnt for free!…
I’ve also started learning some lies
in new forms…
Old form: Honesty is the best
policy.
New form: Honesty is the best policy
only when there is money in it…
There is not much difference between
Truth and Lie…… Actually, most of the truths are refined lies….. So, if
you’re truthful, you’re in most cases, a smart liar!!….
A smart liar is more agreeable than
a dumb truthful person….. All the interesting persons of the world are
missing from Heaven, only because all of them were smart liars in their
lifetime… So, I honestly want to go to Hell…
A genius in a style… Flawless
lie!!…… Really alluring words!…..lol…
Truth is like a grain in the sand.
but the lie……..is the sand.!!!!!!
Let’s hide the grain adding sand to
it…
13 February 2010
Goodbye Winter… Welcome Spring…
Spring teaches me every time the bliss of solitude… I think I’ve been taught
enough!
Dear friends……….Long long ago,
I once heard, ‘You must learn how to say GOODBYE to enjoy the meeting
again’……….I never felt like enjoying again the meeting with
SOLITUDE………..and for this very reason, I think, I couldn’t bid a farewell
to SOLITUDE………..lolzzzzzz…………..
never bid goodbye to solitude….hug
her, hold her….its a bliss….
I wish I couldn’t!!……..
………….Socrates said to young
people, “By all means, MARRY. Because, if you marry a good woman; you’ll
be happy. If you marry a bad one, you’ll be a philosopher.”…….It’s to
be noted here that Xanthippe was the wife of Socrates and she was the most
cantankerous woman history had ever seen!!………I hope you have got the
answer…….lolzzz