Reflection: Four Hundred Ninety-One
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3 October 2009
you have a pure soul that has the
capacity to experience the very essence and bounty of life nature and beauty.
Frineds! Thanks for commenting on my
wall. It’s nice to be always in touch of friends! I feel blessed.
Your heart breaks only when you let
it break, otherwise not.
3 October 2009
……feel like singing and dancing!
I feel happy, so happy!
Lalalalala…..
hihihi…letz dance dada…
Yeaaahhhhh….. We shall dance,
we’ll have fun, we will sing forever!
We’ll enjoy ourselves truly, deeply,
madly!….. The world is beautiful.
My heart wants to sigh like a chime
that flies from a church on via breeze to laugh like a brook when it trips and
falls over the stones on its way to sing through the night like a lark who is
learning to par. ….. Ullalalalalala…..
Dance with me, sing with me, touch the
rainbow with me….. Catch the feathers, hold my hand, we’ll go up the hill
where the sun kisses!
I need no reason to be happy. I’m
always happy……. I always feel like singing…..
Rainbow always kisses my heart, no
matter whether it rains or not!….. I can create rainbow for me. Do you wanna
touch it?
3 October 2009
If anyone misunderstands you before
you understand him/her, it’s a tragedy for you.
I know it better from my own
experience…. It’s really miserable…. You just get what you are not supposed
to get…… You’re to receive what you don’t deserve.
If you’re not caring about any
matter makes you feel like caring more about it, can you deny the urge?
I don’t care about what seem true
or, what don’t. I just express what I feel. If I go wrong, I happily correct
myself when my friends tell me so. If I’m not, nothing on earth can make me
change my opinion. I always do what I feel. @Teresa.
Sometimes avoidance makes you feel
like not avoiding… If you go against your heart, it would be painful.
Friends! That was a robust discussion. I was away from this wall and so couldn’t participate in your discussion……. It is a biasedly accepted conjecture that what misunderstanding for a group, can be understanding for another group. So, the narrow gap is the contradictory portion that often creates a mess…. Better to understand a little than to misunderstand a lot…. In this context, mutual intelligibility must undergo level of agreement however might it sound…… So, it’s imperative to understand a person and also let a him/her understand you before the ultimate strike confounds you.
Hmm….. Sometimes too much understanding breeds misunderstanding also. But in that case, people generally pretend to understand and seem to ponder over contrasted ideas of a fact.
The real disaster of misunderstanding is that you’re left with an unexpected feeling that teaches you a newer form of understanding that you’re not prepared for….. You generally regret when it is too early to regret a friendship.
Be what you would seem to be – or, if you’d like it put more simply – never imagine yourself not to be otherwise than what it might appear to others that what you were or might have been was not otherwise than what you had been would have appeared to them to be otherwise…………..
…… To put simply, be what you feel like being, not what you’re supposed to be.
…. Thanks for reading my wall.
totally agree with you sushanta.as I said above. understanding too much if generally dangerous…..firstly you may realize that you are with the wrong person……and then after understanding him or her, even small unintentional omissions appear planned actions
4 October 2009
I don’t love you because I need you, but I need you because I love you.
We all have a great capacity to love. But what we must find out is how we are supposed to spend our love…… And that’s how our heart responds to it!
Love is everything it’s cracked up to be. That’s why people are so cynical about it…It really is worth fighting for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don’t risk everything, you risk even more.
5 October 2009
Man loves one woman before marriage, after marriage, he usually gets another woman in her shape.
A man marries a woman with the hope that she will never change. A woman marries a man with the hope that he will change. Unfortunately, both of them are usually disappointed.
5 October 2009
Never wound a heart that loves you.
Wounded hearts are like roses that never bloom.
I noticed a wonderful fact…… If
you don’t love someone, but he/she loves you truly, deeply, madly, he/she can
at best hate you for not loving him/her, but can never kill you.
What if a thousand hearts love me?
Equal distribution of my four quadrants, my arteries, ventricles…??
If a thousand hearts love you, then
probably you’re a celebrity. Then you can do whatever you like, either love
them or, not love them. They will never blame you, because even if a celebrity
makes any mistake, people usually think that it is their misunderstanding!
Lol…
6 October 2009
Some of my friends say, I am not
very caring. I also sometimes can feel it…. What should I do?
Find out what your friend should do
for you…………Then do the same to them………….That is what they
want………….
Forget about those friends,
you’ll see they’ll say again,
You are very caring!
…. If I do the same as they do to
me, I even sometimes have to do wrong. Is it desirable?
…. Easy escape!
… Are there any parameters?
…. Thanks for the suggestion.
….. Ahem, ahem!… Sir, honestly
speaking, my friends are really generous enough to take care of me
selflessly… I really don’t deserve this credit!…. I can tell you this for
sure, Sir!… Thanks for reminding me about this!
Reflection: Four hundred and ninety-two
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6 October 2009
What type of marriage is the better
for a happy conjugal life: Affair Marriage? or, Arranged Marriage?
They say, a happy conjugal life
comprises a deaf husband and a blind wife…. Others say, love is blind,
marriage is the eye-opener…. Some say, marriage provides you an opportunity
to share some problems that you would have never faced if you were single!….
Many say, affair after marriage lasts the longest…. Some opine, marriage is
the main cause of divorce, so, no marriage, no hassle!… I think, conjugal
life becomes happy if a husband understands every word his wife isn’t saying,
and a wife understands not every word her husband is saying.
No clue? Ok lemme explain. Human
nature can broadly be devided in 3 categories:- 1. Dominating 2. Moderate 3.
Mild
1. If both are dominating- war. 2.
If both are moderate- then also problems though occasionally. 3. If both are
mild- successful 4. One is dominating & other mild- successful
In conjugal life, understanding
little is better than misunderstanding a lot…. If the married couples are
more worried about what they haven’t than what they have or, could have, it
creates a mess…. Man proposes, woman disposes, and this conjecture is good
for a happy married life. Violation of this rule may lead to conjugal chaos.
Hmm…. Dk Singh has focused on
important secrets of a conjugal life…. Friends, if you love one person, and
marry another one who loves you truly, does it create troubles?
A single life is better only in the
sense that an escaper is happy enough to escape any time whenever he/she
wants………. Friends! If we consider every aspect of our life and society,
is affair marriage better than arranged marriage?…… If affair marriage is
the better, should the persons who are not in love yet, necessarily fall in
love immediately? Lol…..
In marriage, every sides are never
equally matched…. Is it true?……. And we always have to spare at least one
side, is it desirable at all?……
….Can’t ever match. Love of any
human being practically doesn’t remain confined to the partner. There is love
for physical needs/ own parents & relatives/ to impose own nature or liking
on the other/….so many factors. Forget the bookish theory of love where in
lip-to-lip contact only matters….and other worldly matters go into the
backburner.
,…. Well. Which parameters should
we take into consideration more and which one into less?…. That is to say,
which preferences deserve more attention and which ones deserve less attention
for ensuring a happy conjugal life later? …… I’d like to have a generalised
viewpoint on this judgement….. Would you please give some hints for us?……
Friends! How much or less are the
bookish knowledge and the filmy ideas of love correct?…. Are they biased
totally?….
Is compromising a must for a happy
conjugal life?….. Does marriage demand much more than we already have in our
bachelor life?….. Should we be changed totally to meet those demands?
If marriage means compromising, then
we must act not how we feel like, but how we should feel like….. Does it not
spoil spontaneity and thus kill mental peace?…..
If arranged marriage is one type of
rape, then affair marriage must be another type of blackmailed or, convinced
rape…… Am I wrong?
One friend suggested marrying twice…… Should I be punished or hanged twice for the same offense? Lol……
In our modern age, I believe marriages crumble precisely because couples never truly accept that only death can part them. There remains that other escape route—divorce!
In arranged marriages, we chase hollow stereotypes that rarely serve us well. We construct biased profiles of people that breed endless confusion. Social prejudices only poison the well further.
Let me offer a simple illustration: A child between five and twelve thinks—my father is the greatest. At twenty-four—my father is obsolete, utterly uncool, nothing but an antique relic. At forty—dear God, what chaos I’ve made! How did my father manage it all? He was truly made of iron.
So friends, wisdom arrives—but not at the marriage age of twenty-four to thirty.
Precisely! I couldn’t agree more! For this very reason, in love marriages, either the man or woman invariably becomes the casualty. At that age, people construct their reality on whim, fancy, and fantasy—not logic, reason, or truth. And such foundations prove treacherous and catastrophic.
Perfect, my friend. Here’s my conclusion: This dance between man and woman remains profoundly complex. You will never fathom a woman’s nature—not even across seven lifetimes. Even the gods failed at this. The deeper you probe, the greater your bewilderment. It resembles quicksand—the harder you struggle to escape, the deeper you sink. So the sole solution:
Keep reasonable options before you. Set a firm deadline. I judge the optimal marriage window to be twenty-eight to thirty—so that by the time you grow weary or retire at sixty, your children stand settled. The moment you reach that threshold, select the finest option and simply leap. But heed this counsel—bring your parents into your confidence. Otherwise, you commit the gravest transgression. They possess that selfless devotion!
Tell me, friends! Is it true that love marriages never achieve perfect harmony? That either the man or woman must always suffer defeat? If so, is love truly blind?
…. দাদা, এটা সত্যিই একটা দুর্দান্ত
পরামর্শ! আমি এর প্রশংসা করি…. আমার কাছে, ঈশ্বর আমার পিতামাতার পাশেই… এমনকি
যখন পুরো পৃথিবী চলে যায়, পিতামাতা আমাদের পাশে থাকে…… আমার কিছু
বন্ধু সবসময় আমাকে বলে যে আমার প্রেমে পড়া উচিত, আর ২-৩ বছর প্রেম
চালিয়ে বিয়ে করাই ভালো….. তারা এমনকি বলে, আমি অসম্পূর্ণ থেকে যাব
যদি এই ধরনের জীবনের অভিজ্ঞতা না নিই….. আমি বিভ্রান্ত হয়ে গেছি, আর
ফেসবুকে এখানে আমার বন্ধুদের পরামর্শ চেয়েছি…..
ভাবনা: চারশো তিরানব্বই
……………………………………………………
৭ অক্টোবর ২০০৯
অশালীনতা পোশাক-আশাক দিয়ে বিচার
করা যায় না, তা প্রকাশ পায় অঙ্গভঙ্গি বা ভঙ্গিমার মধ্য দিয়ে… বন্ধুরা! তোমরা কি
একমত?
৯০% সম্মতি। তবে আমি পোশাকের
রুচিবোধের জন্যও ১০% জায়গা রেখে দেব।
হ্যাঁ, পোশাকের রুচিবোধও গুরুত্বপূর্ণ।
সবচেয়ে খারাপ অশালীনতা প্রকাশ পায়
অর্থের অপব্যবহারে!
একদম সত্যি! মানুষ স্বভাবতই এই ধরনের
অশালীনতা প্রদর্শনে প্রলোভিত হয়।
বন্ধুরা! আমার ওয়ালে পড়া আর লেখার
জন্য অনেক ধন্যবাদ।
৭ অক্টোবর ২০০৯
কোনো ছেলে তাকে লক্ষ্য করলে একটি
মেয়ে সাধারণত ভান করে যে সে জানে না…. বন্ধুরা! তোমরা কি একমত?
আমার নিজের অভিজ্ঞতা থেকে দেখেছি
যে প্রায় সবসময়ই একটি মেয়ে ছেলেটিকে লক্ষ্য করে তার আগেই যেদিন সে তাকে
লক্ষ্য করে….. কিন্তু, সে তা অস্বীকার করতে আনন্দ পায়!
মেয়েদের আরেকটি মজার
বৈশিষ্ট্য রয়েছে….. তারা প্রায়ই লজ্জাশীল হওয়ার ভান করে, যদিও তারা
প্রকৃতপক্ষে তেমন নয়, আমার মনে হয়……
৮ অক্টোবর ২০০৯
……. ২৫টি মোমবাতি জ্বালানোর জন্য
নভেম্বর ২-এর জন্য অধীর আগ্রহে অপেক্ষা!
৮ অক্টোবর ২০০৯
প্রেম যখন একজন প্রেমিককে প্রেমের জন্য
কাঁদায়, তখন সেই অশ্রু তার চোখে অগ্নিশিখা হয়ে ওঠে।
প্রেমই একমাত্র আবেগের রং
যা ক্যানভাসে কোনো নির্দিষ্ট পথ অনুসরণ করে না।
প্রেমই একমাত্র ভাষা
যা আমাদের অন্ধকারের দেয়ালে হাঁটতে শেখায় আলোর হৃদয় উন্মোচনের জন্য।
সত্যিকারের প্রেমের পথ কখনো
মসৃণভাবে চলে না……
অশ্রুবিন্দুই সবচেয়ে শক্তিশালী অস্ত্র
যা প্রেমকে কংক্রিট রূপ দেয়।
প্রেমই একমাত্র নিয়ম যা বিনা
নিয়মে রাজত্ব করে।
৮ অক্টোবর ২০০৯
Hold fast to dreams….. For if
dreams die….. Life is a broken-winged bird….. That cannot fly….. Hold
fast to dreams….. For when dreams go….. Life is a barren field….. Frozen
with snow…..
~~ Langston Hughes
I think the best way to make your
dreams come true is to wake up.
What distinguishes us one from
another is our dreams………….and what we do to make them come about.
So true!…. A man is as great as
his dreams are.
The most pitiful among men is he who
turns his dreams into silver and gold.
Dreams follow the way we feel like
experiencing it!
The wisest men follow their own
direction.
Call of heart!
……Dream & illusions are
recipe for disaster, enjoy life only one to experience.
How you accept a phenomenon bears
the aftermath you might experience. The credit or, discredit therefore, goes to
you not the recipe.
9 October 2009
Love once whispered to my soul,….
I was too busy then even to listen to it….. Long long afterwards, I heard its
echo,…. My heart treasured it, I felt like floating!…. Our sweetest
feelings always remain untouched, I realized…..
Wisdom dawns when the thief has fled—the thief who came and escaped before we even realized it. Such is the way! When a virus attacks, the processor slows down; this is only natural. Remove the virus, and you’ll see—everything returns to normal!
…. Thanks for sparing time to read
my poetry…. Love have lived in my soul since I felt the subtlety of my
heart….. I nourish it for love’s sake, not for someone’s sake. That’s why, it
stayed, stays and will stay forever in my soul.
I err only to err again, yet love still calls me back!
10 October 2009
what do people first notice about
you?
Is it?
10 October 2009
DON’T GO FAR OFF, NOT EVEN FOR A
DAY… Don’t go far off, not even for a day,… because — because — I don’t
know how to say it : a day is long and I will be waiting for you, as in an
empty station when the trains are parked off somewhere else, asleep…… —
Pablo Neruda
I will be in London, waiting for
you, at waterloo station
drinking water hourly & going to
loo every half hourly!
Brother!….. You’re making a good
(!) use of waiting for your beloved!
Majboori ka majboori na kaho!
your beloved is yet to make appearance.
train is too late & you feel shock of loneliness.
I am defining loneliness, when you
are all alone, your soul cries for company, your body keeps you busy by
frequent water guzzling & subsequent urinal visits!
10 October 2009
…. Love reigns, yet we’re too
helpless to subdue its dominion!
…… Yes, I have her. She dwells in my
soul, yet I’ve never seen her. I never touched her, only felt her presence.
She enters my dreams, but never fades into forgetting or abandons my mind as
dreams do. I wish I could meet her just once!
11 October 2009
Are You In Love or Not?
I wish it were true!!
…… I wish your assumption were
true!….. But, I can assure you that I won’t fall in love with anyone if she
doesn’t deserve it! (kidding!!)
From the quiz-setter, honestly
speaking! Lol…..
11 October 2009
Before falling in love with someone,
you must ask yourself how far in the world will you go to be with him/her…..
I firmly believe this.
…. Hold her hand even when you reach
the last frontier.
….. True love demands both
falling and rising—the distinction is often slight!
…. Love reigns when logic fails,
but often it misleads as well!
…. This is called honesty in love,
and it is pure love!
….. I always prefer to be lighthearted
rather than miserable when it comes to love!
On the heart’s path, lovers always
return no matter what distance they might have crossed, finding reason
to move and dance upon the waves of a sacred soul, and this endless love
mingles with a celestial state of grace!
Birds are never afraid of flying
even toward the sky beyond the last sky, simply because they delight in flight—this is called spontaneity! The eternal current of love never halts anywhere, as the course
of our heart flows on and on!
আর, সত্যিকারের প্রেমে তোমার প্রিয়জনের কাছে
প্রতিশ্রুতি দেওয়ার, ‘ধন্যবাদ’ বলার বা ‘দুঃখিত’ বলার প্রয়োজন হয় না….. আমার তাই মনে হয়।
প্রেমে… যখন কথা ব্যর্থ হয়, চোখ
কথা বলে, যখন চোখ ব্যর্থ হয়, নীরবতা কথা বলে। হৃদয় সর্বদা নিজের মতো করেই প্রবাহিত হয়!…. তোমার
কিছু ভাবার প্রয়োজন নেই; চিন্তা চিরকাল তোমার আত্মার মধ্য দিয়ে প্রবাহিত হতে থাকবে।
বন্ধুরা! একটি অত্যন্ত জোরালো আলোচনা চলছে….
আমি কিছু যোগ করছি…… প্রেম আমাদের জীবনের সারাৎসার। আমরা যা করি
বা ভাবি তা তাই অনিবার্যভাবে প্রেমের সাথে সংযুক্ত। আর প্রেমের বর্তমান রূপ আজকাল এমন মাত্রা লাভ করছে যে প্রেমের এই বিচিত্র ধরনটি নিয়ে আমি প্রায়ই বিভ্রান্ত হয়ে পড়ি। আর আমার মনে হয় ভুল মানুষের সাথে থাকার চেয়ে একা থাকাই ভালো…… এটি প্রেমের ক্ষেত্রে একটি অস্বাস্থ্যকর এবং পক্ষপাতদুষ্ট দৃষ্টিভঙ্গি তৈরি করে…………. আর তবুও আমাদের দৃষ্টি নিক্ষেপ করার জন্য আরও অনেক বিষয় আছে!
প্রেম হয়তো অসংজ্ঞায়িত কিন্তু এটি
সর্বোচ্চ আবেগ
এর সংজ্ঞা ব্যক্তি থেকে ব্যক্তিতে
এবং সময়ে সময়ে ভিন্ন হতে পারে কিন্তু এটি সব সম্পর্কের চূড়ান্ত গন্তব্য হিসেবে রয়ে গেছে
প্রেম হল একসাথে থাকা, সাহচর্য,
বন্ধুত্ব, গ্রহণযোগ্যতা, সহনশীলতা, সমন্বয় এবং প্রতিশ্রুতি।
প্রেম সেরা জিনিস যা একজন
মানুষের ঘটতে পারে, একটি অভিজ্ঞতা যা মহৎ এবং শাশ্বত।
প্রেম বয়স, লিঙ্গ, শ্রেণী,
ধর্ম বা মতের ঊর্ধ্বে। এটি মানুষের তৈরি সামাজিক এবং ভৌগোলিক সীমানার ঊর্ধ্বে
প্রেম এমন একটি অবস্থা যেখানে প্রিয়জনের
নিছক চিন্তা অপার আনন্দ নিয়ে আসে
প্রেম নিজেই সম্পূর্ণ এবং
কোনো নিয়ম বা প্রতিশ্রুতির প্রয়োজন নেই
প্রেম কামনাময়, রসাল, পরমানন্দময় এবং
চিরস্থায়ী সুখের চূড়ান্ত উৎস
প্রেমই জীবন।
…… প্রেমই একমাত্র নিয়ম যা
নিয়ম ছাড়াই শাসন করে!…… চমৎকার ব্যাখ্যা, সত্যিই! ধন্যবাদ স্যার!
….. এমন কিছু কখনও কোরো না যার
জন্য পরে অনুতাপ করতে হতে পারে!
প্রেম বিচিত্র,
সুশান্ত………………….এটি সবার জন্য
আলাদা…………………কোনো নির্দেশিকা নেই, কোনো সীমাবদ্ধতা
নেই…………কোনো নিয়ম নেই………………শুধু এটাকে সেভাবেই বাঁচো
যেমন তুমি জীবন ছেড়ে দাও………………..সত্যিকারে, স্বেচ্ছায় এবং স্বতঃস্ফূর্তভাবে! আমি প্রেম,
প্রেম করা এবং প্রেমকে ভালোবাসি!
স্বতঃস্ফূর্ততা, সংবেদনশীলতা, আবেগ
প্রেমের উপাদান যা প্রেমকে অনন্তকালের যাত্রায় সাহায্য করে। প্রেম আমাদের শেখায় সত্যিকারের, গভীরভাবে, পাগলের মতো আবেগপ্রবণ হতে। আমরা নিজেদের প্রতিরোধ করতে অত্যন্ত অসহায়।
ঠিক আছে। এটা অনুভব করো এবং অনুভব
করার পাশাপাশি তোমার পড়াশোনাও চালিয়ে যাও!
প্রেম শুধু আমাদের পাগল করে
দেয়……..এবং অযৌক্তিক, মেরুদণ্ডহীন, এবং অহংকারহীন করে……………………তুমি
কিছু মনে করো না…শুধু ভালোবাসতে চাও!
So, better not to be worried about
it and just to react to it spontaneously when it happens to fall on us!
Reflection: Four Hundred Ninety-Four
……………………………………………………
11 October 2009
Behind every great fortune there is
a crime…….. Friends! Is it true?
Every time I read the novel
Godfather or, watch that movie or, think about the thriving personalities, this
often comes to my mind.
The concept of crime, be it in
personal, interpersonal, social, national, international or, any level, is yet
to be universally defined though its sheer impact is acutely felt in our
day-to-day affairs. Thriving on others shoulders is a pre-civilization concept
and we’re very well accustomed to it in our experience and practice. We can
hardly be gainers without making some losers. So, the materialistic
accumulation is largely based on the deprivation of others in social,
political, financial even psychological dimensions in today’s highly
sophisticated world. Again, exploitation is the securest form of gaining
admiration. And, on this universal conjecture, I think that saying deserves
attention.
We often undergo many delusions that
occupy our mind and eventually we deluge in many mundane obsessions. So, hardly
we feel like denying the seemingly never-ending demands that our surroundings
confer upon us. That’s why, we never feel the scruples of soul in committing
any heinous task. I think most of the history famous heroes are just deadly
murderers. And following their footprints the heroes of modern world are
desperate to institutionalize the present shape of terrorism or, crime. We’re
just too habituated even to term it as a social malady!…… I also feel
another fact bitterly. And it is, nowadays corruption is another form of
careerism. Can we ever deny the urge of building up our career? If not, how can
we shun crimes?
If we draw a sharp line of contrast
between Orientalism and Western ethics, we’ll find that the shrewd strategy of
disposition reflects political, social, anthropological, financial dominance in
the cultural zone of the so-called third world countries. The colonialized
Orient miserably experiences the overwhelming discourse of aggression in their
internal matters regarding even national affairs. The newer form of Imperialism
represents us as inferiors, dumbs, uncivilized bloody masses! They make us
realize that life gains newer shapes with the magical (!) touch of Western
blend. Is it not a pre-planned arrangement of Imperial crime? Are they not in a
far far privileged status than us? The artificial glands tend to subdue our
values making us psychologically blackmailed…… Friends! Do you disagree
with me on this form of globally accepted silent crime?
12 October 2009
‘The Alchemist’ পড়া যেন ভোরে উঠে সূর্যোদয় দেখার মতো, যখন পৃথিবীর বাকি সবাই তখনও ঘুমে মগ্ন।
…. The Alchemist একটি সরল, অনুপ্রেরণাদায়ক, অথচ রোমাঞ্চকর উপন্যাসের মতো যা আশাবাদে পূর্ণ; এ ধরনের উপন্যাস আমাদের বলে যে সবকিছুই সম্ভব যতক্ষণ আমরা সত্যিকার অর্থে তা ঘটতে চাই। মূল বার্তা যা পাঠকদের কাছে পৌঁছায় তা হলো “যখন তুমি সত্যিকার অর্থে কিছু ঘটতে চাও, সমগ্র মহাবিশ্ব ষড়যন্ত্র করে যাতে তোমার ইচ্ছা পূরণ হয়।” এটিই উপন্যাসটির দর্শনের মূল এবং একটি মূল সুর যা কোয়েলহোর লেখায় পুরো The Alchemist জুড়ে প্রতিধ্বনিত হয়।
১২ অক্টোবর ২০০৯
পৃথিবীর স্পষ্ট বিবরণ দেওয়া অসম্ভব, কিন্তু শিল্প আমাদের শেখাতে পারে কীভাবে তাকে পুনরুৎপাদন করতে হয়—ঠিক যেমন পৃথিবী তার চিরন্তন আবর্তনের পথে নিজেকে পুনরুৎপাদন করে।
পৃথিবীর কী হবে যদি দণ্ডিতরা তাদের হৃদয়ের যন্ত্রণা জল্লাদদের কাছে বিশ্বাস করে বলতে শুরু করে?
১২ অক্টোবর ২০০৯
মধ্যপ্রাচ্য কী? আমাদের কি ইংল্যান্ডকে মধ্যপশ্চিম বলা উচিত?
প্রাচ্যবাদ একটি সূক্ষ্ম শব্দ যা শুধুমাত্র এই অঞ্চলের জন্য আরোপিত হয় আমাদের সাংস্কৃতিক, সামাজিক, আর্থিক, আন্তর্জাতিক, বুদ্ধিবৃত্তিক এবং আমাদের দৈনন্দিন জীবনের বিভিন্ন ক্ষেত্রে পঙ্গু করার জন্য। প্রাচ্য ও পশ্চিমা সমাজের জীবনযাত্রার মধ্যে একটি তীব্র বৈপরীত্য রয়েছে। তারা একটি জঘন্য ‘তৃতীয় বিশ্বের’ ধারণাও তৈরি করেছে আমাদের অনেক আন্তর্জাতিক বিষয়ে মুখ বন্ধ রাখার জন্য। এবং এই ধারাবাহিকতা আরো অনেক পক্ষপাতদুষ্ট অনুমানের জন্ম দেয় এবং আমার স্ট্যাটাস মেসেজ তার একটি প্রমাণ বহন করে।
মধ্যপশ্চিম নয় কিন্তু ইউকেতে মিডলসেক্স নামে একটি জায়গা আছে…হাহা
ওহ!! গ্রিনিচ হলো শূন্য রেখা (মূল মধ্যরেখা)। আমরা যদি ৯০ ডিগ্রি পশ্চিমকে মধ্যপশ্চিম বিবেচনা করি, তা দক্ষিণ প্রশান্ত মহাসাগর—যুক্তরাষ্ট্র—-কানাডার ওপর দিয়ে যায়। যদি ৯০ ডিগ্রি পূর্ব মধ্যপ্রাচ্য হয়, তা ভারত মহাসাগর—বাংলাদেশ—ভারত—-রাশিয়ার ওপর দিয়ে যায় (যদিও এটি মৌখিকভাবে স্বীকৃত নয়, কিন্তু মধ্যরেখা ০ থেকে ১৮০ ডিগ্রি পূর্ব ও পশ্চিমে গণনা করা হয়, তাই ৯০ ডিগ্রি রেখা উভয় গোলার্ধের মধ্যরেখা)। ভৌগোলিকভাবে “মধ্যপ্রাচ্য” (উপসাগরীয় অঞ্চল) হলো আফ্রিকার সাথে এশিয়ার পশ্চিম সীমা। তাহলে, আমরা কি এটাকে পশ্চিম এশিয়া বলতে পারি????
….. This concept is largely based
on the intention of exploitation, I think. The West created many imaginary
fancies about Oriental history, people, culture, belief and later on they
propagated it throughout the world. The sense of Western superiority and
Oriental inferiority instigated it more. And the so-called Orientalism proclaims
the Orient unfit to be directed on its now dictatorship. Thus, they destroyed
the bone network of administrative confidence of the Oriental societies….
Arnab has nicely interpreted the geographical facts and I’ve started thinking
seriously about ‘West Asia’ concept. Lol… ….. Dk Singh, has also provided
an interesting (!) idea about the Western acceptability! I just feel
like……….
13 October 2009
After reading ‘Orientalism’, I
think, Edward W. Said helped us realize who we’re, what we should do to live
as moral representatives rather than being just slaves to power.
13 October 2009
WILL YOU GO TO HELL quiz reveals
I’ll go to heaven!
No!!! I don’t want to go
there……… All the interesting people are missing from there!!
Heaven is a Hell-like place for
living!
Facebook quiz-setters are conspiring
to send me there.
You people are making fun of my
ill-fate.
Now, let’s go to Hell altogether!
Right! Right!! I’m ready to do
everything to go to Hell.
you are ready, but I think, which I
did till now is enough to get admitted there…..
You lied in your comment. I think
God would be kind enough to consider this.
May God do that if He really
exists!!
And darkness is the preamble of
light, we all know!
Here I want to add one of my
favourite writer Humayun Azad’s comment: “Knowledge never springs from
faith. It springs from doubt.”
So true! I can’t agree more……
Same theme is furnished in Gita also!
13 October 2009
The truths of God-based religion are
never so well understood as by those who have lost the power of reason.
The miserably popular trendy form of
religion devoid of the base of reasons of discourse!
Become atheist you will find the
answer. There are NONE. Rest is waste of time. So, you have lots of reason and
argument to proof they exists. World is not 10000 years old and human gene
mapping is done and other work is in progress, I am confident that you would
live to see the truth.
I wish I could!
Reflection: Four Hundred and Ninety-Five
……………………………………………………
13 October 2009
As she loved me truly, deeply,
madly, she really couldn’t think I was the right person for her… I admire her
love!
I’m not young enough to say, I love
you, to anyone.
As honest I’m morally, I can never
let anyone feel what she is not supposed to feel about me.
13 October 2009
The probability of meeting someone
you know increases when you are with someone you don’t want to be seen with.
Ruby’s Principle of close
encounters……..
Really embarrassing!…. Night comes
when you expect to enjoy twilight some more time.
13 October 2009
How is the life?… To me, the life
is exactly as we think about it…. Life is beautiful only if we think it so,
otherwise never it is!
Our life is always more beautiful
even than what extent we can imagine it to be. We never can derive the pleasure
fully from our life as transience of life never lets us do so. I often feel
amazed at the subtlity of the dreams that shows our life the endless enigma of
eternity.
Life is like the old magic mirror
that my grandmother purchased hundred years back from a gypsy woman. I often
discover my own soul-image in that mirror!
Life is a meaningless matter that
teaches us how to think meaningfully. Reality of thought and matter is the
duality that shapes the phases of our life……
The highest form of living is just a
madness, an illusion, a shadow, a tale always untold, a sing unsung forever….
Life is a dream that adds hue to the rainbow of our existence!……. Action is
the testimony to this existence.
Life is a story told by an idiot….
A song yet to be sung times immemorial…. A shadow we can hardly escape!
Life is too short to regret, too
joyous to compromise!
Life is not a journey to the grave.
Once you reach there, you’re not experiencing life, so what’s the use of spoiling
the life thinking about grave? You need not be worried about it, Death will
find you when the time comes, what you’re needed really to be worried about is
how to live the life you were born to live.
14 October 2009
As soon as you sit down to a cup of
hot coffee, your boss will ask you to do something which will last until the
coffee is cold.
have cold coffee instead!!
That a good idea!…..
14 October 2009
True knowledge never springs from
belief, but from doubt.
yes you are right SP…but these two
words “true” & “never” don’t go so well…
…… Ok brother. I’m omitting
‘TRUE’. But what’s the wrong with ‘NEVER’?
never word should never be
used….there is no never in this universe..cya later…party time
…… Ok buddy! Have a great party!
Skepticism is the base to answer the
causes of all the physical processes. We can never admit anything as true until
we perceive it through our senses. Our body and consciousness are mysteriously
linked with each other. Mental automatism disallows beliefs and as our
expectations are closely related to our practices or, past experiences assist
us to know the world in its truest form. The laws of human cognition establish
a doubt about the proof and cognizance of the natural rules. And the rules of
causality fully adopt with our psychology only when our mind responds to some
decisive factors of sensing.
I think, ‘Belief’ all times binds
human being within a limited sector. That’s why it can ‘never’ springs new
knowledge.
Yes, belief makes us feel what some
people taught us to feel. We can hardly think independently, as we are afraid
of newer notions or, experiences. In case of belief, we walk on the road our
forefathers walked earlier and lose the power of judging whether that path is
right or, wrong. It increases our ignorance and destroys potential…. The real
important truths become biased when they are just personally judged. Faith
stays between the gap of knowledge and experience. When a phenomenon is beyond
our known interpretations, we start just believing that it happens but never
try to analyze how it happens and thus superficial truths reign over profound
truths.
15 October 2009
Everything is new now for me. My
mind is new, the moon, the sun. The whole world looks rinsed with water, washed
in the rain of I am That. Sushanta leaps and dances inside the energy that
creates and sustains the universe.
That energy is in you. Just prepare
your mind to accept it!…………. Happiness is a state of mind or feeling
characterized by contentment, love, satisfaction, pleasure, or joy……Just
feel them!! .
Happiness (also being well and doing
well) is the only thing that humans desire for its own sake, unlike riches,
honor, health or friendship……………….You will never be happy if you
continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you
are looking for the meaning of life………
A man is as great as far he can
think………..Things are that they are, things will be that they will
be……………..I think…realization of these two are important for
happiness…………….
I think; therefore, I am…….the
center of the universe… LOL
………I think therefore you
can’t……….the centre of destruction………….. lolzzz……..
…………..Not every night we
die, sometimes in day-time, we feel like dying also!! Ahem, ahem!
15 October 2009
Music is the soul of my life! It’s
my passion, obsession!
it’s mine too!!!!!!!!passion &
obsession….
Then you’re my soul-mate in this
regard!…. I always listen to music. Why? I’m too helpless to resist myself!
16 October 2009
Sometimes I feel like
climbing atop the heads
of those beneath whose feet I stand!
~~ Sunil
Translation : Sometimes I feel like
subduing those who always exploit us…..
Why such strange desires?
Simian instincts!
Brother, have you ever tried being a monkey riding a tiger’s neck, to see how it feels? Try it! I think it would feel quite good.
… My kite of desire soars like this in the wind.
…… If only it could be so…
riding on their heads……..I would dance wildly… in my own way!
…. The truth is,
if you understand properly, you never fall into doubt.
I too
wish to be myself!
Go ahead and fulfill that wish. Then see what happens!
I feel like
standing at the foot of a monument and shouting, Nothing pleases me anymore!
No use. The monument’s heart too
has become a ‘monument in miniature’!
Thought: Four hundred ninety-six
……………………………………………………
16 October 2009
Hello! Is this 24113nine?
Dreams will now become true at last!
Your and my crimson-blue household!
… I have a sad news for you.
Bela got married long ago. She
eloped with Keshto da of Dindayal bhandar. She used to meet her quite often
when she used to go to the shop to buy a few things for her house.
You should have got in touch
promptly after settling down with your new job. In fact, immediately after the
probation period when you got confirmed, you should have married her.
The best part is, her husband has
payed of all the dues you had at the small restaurant in the locality. You owed
the shop the money for some odd sixty cups of tea… 20 packs of Charminar and
fish cutlet of about Rs 500/- which you bought for Bela.
She is quite fine. She just got a
job in primary school in Subhashgram. Her husband has expanded his Dindayal
Bhandar and has Arambagh hatcheries franchisee too.
SO, I WOULD SAY… BETTER FORGET
BELA AND LOOK FOR FRESH PASTURES!
Dada….. I feel sad about your life
story! Take it easy, dada! Life never stops for anybody, it goes on and
on…… Lol…….. (Anyway, I must eulogize the idea of your story….. the A
are you N!!)
Eyeing at other’s wealth and wife is
forbidden SP. Forget Bela, find some Albela…
…. Dada, better to do something
else rather than eying, ahem, ahem!…. (I owe to you for this idea!…. )
Sushanta, Read the thread
carefully… it is your story which I heard when last time I went to the locality
where you and Bela lived. How can it be my story… hee hee.
And yes, you are right… Bela bose
is now Bela Mukherji. Now that you have not got her please don’t go and try to
preach her how to be careful about her daughter. Her daughter is just 2 years
old. Let it go, yaar.
dada….. 2 years! I appreciate your
fantastic idea about me…. Lol……… Hmm…. I can recall…. You went to
my locality for telling something to Ms. Bela. After a few days of your visit,
she became Mrs. Bela… But, I wonder why she writes ‘Mukherjee’ instead of
‘Das’! (or, preferably ‘Bose’ )….. Is there another story behind it?
Hahahaha…. At Bela
Bose’s house, you and I, the milkman, the newspaper vendor, the vegetable seller… many used to go there… Who will you point fingers at, tell me!
Brother… come, let us investigate together… who is that culprit!
I told you from the very beginning… the culprit is Keshto from Deen Dayal Bhandar!
16 October 2009
These days, in crowds of people… finding a human being is difficult!
In the realm of humans, a melancholy existence with the inhuman.
Just as you are not present within yourself.
…I never remain confined solely within myself.
Life passed in the search for humanity…
The first search in the mirror…
…The second must surely be in someone else’s eyes,
isn’t it?
No, only in one’s own…
…That day in Chaitra…
…Did you see your destruction in my eyes?
16 October 2009
I often pretend to know people to
save myself from the embarrassment of an introduction…… Friends! Do you do
it also?
I do it sometimes, hate myself for
the same though…..
That’s quite embarrassing!!
Wonderfully penned!!!!!! Deep,
touching, impacting write.
….. Wonderful writing often
springs gracefully when it borrows the writer’s personal experience….. This
holds good in my case….. Thanks for your eulogy…
16 October 2009
Chakpak Movies quiz tells Aishwariya
is in love with Sushanta!
Really???…. (I feel jealous of
myself!! )
I’m also!!……………….
…………..I wish I could get her!!
She married Abhishek after I had
refused her. What a mess!!…………She still loves me………….So do
I……….. hahahaha……………
Heights friend…..today I came to
know that after I refused her she came to you.
She told me this….. For this, I
refused her!!
I know that you are not capable.
Are you supposed to know it?…….
Ahem, ahem!!
yes came to know from the news
channel and the print media that someone is changing…..lolzzzzzzz
Oh shit!!….. I just can’t tolerate
those yellow journalist……. They spread more what they don’t know than what
they know actually…………… Let not them befool u!!
16 October 2009
A lot of beautiful people are
stupid. There’s a tremendous number of idiots who look so good. It’s
frightening….. Friends! What should we do while judging a person?
The radiance of an intelligent countenance is true beauty! But why must we judge at all? Do we constantly calculate before mingling with people?
Sometimes even the wrong person feels dear to us, without any reckoning………….
I just think that beautiful people
don’t have it as hard, you know? They just don’t know what rejection’s like.
That’s why super models aren’t good actresses, because they don’t need
anything. If someone is beautiful and she’s needy, she’s probably had a
terrible childhood.
…… There is another charm in
being a celebrity…….. When a celebrity does anything wrong, people
generally think that it is their own misunderstanding that they cannot actually
(!) grasp what he/she is doing!!
I have always considered you as a
beautiful person!?!?
…… Brother,
everyone says the same….
…. (Can you remember anything nostalgic?)
Friends!! Would you rather be good-looking
and stupid, ugly and smart?
My answer: Ugly and smart!!!
I would give up every ounce of
anything good looking about me to be smarter. (Of course, it’s easy for me to
say, because I’ve never been really ugly……… lolz) But even good looks
fade with time… intelligence lasts longer.
Besides… what can a good-looking
stupid person offer the world? People will soon learn that there’s nothing
inside that pretty little head, and leave. But ugly and smart, well, people can
get over their initial aversion and then really get to know and like you. It
would be lonely to be good looking and stupid.
I never underestimate the privilege
of being self-sufficient.
SP, to address your original
status…..I think when we judge others, we do not define them, we define
ourselves. Our opinions are very limited to our understanding and experiences…
BTW like your stimulating status and
comments.
…. Thanks for discovering the
charm of my status messages and comments…… Our mind often is tempted to
admit the superficial truth rather than the profound truth, which nevertheless
agreeable or, not, often leads us to misjudgment and prejudiced indoctrination
and stereotypical ideas. It instigates misinterpretation about some aspects of
life….
….. Beauty is superficial but, it
also pays whenever you possess beauty of thought as well….. I personally,
emphasize a lot on outward beauty besides inner faculties… Thanks.
depends on what you are looking
for???? beauty or brains.
….. I always do adore the power of
brain, but, in my case, this type of adoration often follows my impression
about a person’s outwardly visualizable beauty…… And, I confess, I often
get disappointed!…….. Lol…… Thanks.
Absolutely agreed…. we often(if not
always) judge based on superficial and primarily based on our learning’s…
….based on our (mis)judgements, we are consciously or unconsciously evolving
and I mean at a material… human level…not being spiritual here, what we thought
dumb or beauty or fun when we were teenagers is different than our evolved
thinking now… So I am just saying our judging of people is a reflection of
us…….superficial or deep depends on us and our understanding…
Nonetheless I wouldn’t say I haven’t
loved Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt or any other pretty face!!!!! But I personally
prefer a beautiful person INSIDE OUT
…..A beautiful person inside
out!… That’s a great idea easy to admit, yet difficult to exercise…. I
personally have a weakness for grace of mind but my adoration of outward beauty
often precedes my biased (!) weakness about innate faculties of mind, I
confess….. The outward magnificence of The Taj blurs the evidential inner
significance of that edifice to me for the time being……
Who are we to Judge people……..Let’s
accept them the way they come and what we cannot accept lets have the strength
to bear it.
….. Yes…. But the problem is I’m
not young enough to accept anyone not considering whether he/she deserves my
acceptance or, not….. Hmm…. Sometimes strength also bears testimony to the feeling
of ‘cannot but’! ….
SP, it is not an idea… I live by it…
yes yesteryears… I was driven by skin but I guess experiences have evolved me… 🙂
they had conducted a study where a newborn were held by a beautiful person and
not so beautiful person…..most of the babies cried out the loudest with the not
so beautiful person…so my friend you are not alone.. I’m saying… you will only
evolve….some slower than others
It’s ok to appreciate the outer
beauty.. Beauty, inside or out, is god’s own handwriting my friend…..that’s
where I’m in life.
Beauty and brain, uncommon, but not
that rare!
Then again, beauty is perceived, not
absolute.
Beauty is on the eyes of the
beholders. There is hardly anything which is absolutely beautiful or, ugly.
And, it might be a relief for many a person….. Lol…
Unlike absolute power, absolute
beauty, if exists however, doesn’t always corrupt absolutely.
Well….. Beauty is all-pervading,
nevertheless, it isn’t always abused like absolute power. It varies from person
to person and depends on the outlook and scrutinization of the possessor,
whereas, power doesn’t.
Those wide eyes lined with kohl…..lost in their own beauty!!!
I have known you through your own heart’s canvas!
The mirror on my heart’s canvas…..it lies shattered in a hundred fragments…..can you see your own reflection in it,
Sushanta? Tell me?
I haven’t seen the fragments!
I was so lost in you!….
Thought: Four hundred and ninety-seven
……………………………………………………
17 October 2009
Friends! Life is calling! Where are you?…….
Happy Diwali!
17 October 2009
The virtue of being surprised is the
gateway to acquiring knowledge…… Do you agree?
When the world becomes habituated to
us and we pay little attention to the age-old customs, we’re generally reclused
from the amazing diversity that the universe might offer…. Faith or, belief
can hardly pay in this respect….
18 October 2009
Please don’t follow me…… I’m
lost!
Being lost is the easiest way to be
focused. Because when you’re lost only you don’t know your whereabouts but the
rest of the world knows…. If you’re lost once, you’ve no fear of being lost
again and so you can go wherever you like and do whatever you like as you think
nobody is noticing you….. If you’re lost and follow a person who is lost, you
might discover yourself in the world which is unfamiliar to him/her but
familiar to you….. Being lost has many advantages over being physically
present but mentally lost (subconsciously lost! )…….
18 October 2009
……..feel like floating on a
sleepy blue ocean and enjoying the colour of night……
18 October 2009
That coffee house conversation is no more today……where have those golden afternoons disappeared to…….today they exist no more…….
An hour’s conversation at the coffee house empties the pocket these days, that’s why there aren’t the same kind of gatherings as before, brother!
Manna Dey himself probably doesn’t go to the coffee house for conversations anymore.
The nature of conversations today has changed completely. Even at the coffee house, those gatherings don’t happen the same way anymore. Most people go there just to drink coffee now,
not for conversation; I’ve gone and seen it myself.
I feel wonderfully moved by the thought that at least one dear friend has made such space in their heart for my mere feelings. Brother, what kind of conversation do you enjoy most?
….We did have our adda at the coffee house, of course. Everything was delightful, except for the cigarette smoke wafting in from all directions!
…..This is what I do. When I sit down to eat at any restaurant, I mentally transform it into a coffee house and have coffee and cutlets. What’s the harm?….. If you love rainbows, why not paint one in your mind!
Those seven are no longer here,
yet the table remains…..seven cups still not empty……new buds have come to that same garden today, only the gardener from those days is gone…….
Will that sun-drenched day near Poush ever return…..
The vanished days call out to me from behind, memory paints colorful pictures of sorrow in this heart of mine……..
Friends!
In this mechanical atmosphere of urban life, we seek refuge in nostalgia….hoping for a moment’s peace….
I am a peddler of dreams, I wander selling dreams……I buy dreams, I sell dreams….. Friend, buy from me some forgotten ‘dream’ that once taught you how to dream….. Pay for the dream only with your friendship……..this is life!
19 October 2009
Life is a Disneyland…….
You’ll get here more than you
expect, even sometimes more than you deserve…..
We’re such types of puppets who
willingly let others dance us…. And then we start losing the life which we
were born to live…… Life cannot be a Disneyland until you feel like so, you
think so……
Give a smile to life, life will give
you a laughter…..
Life is a wonderful blend of unknown
feelings…. It’s an ancient magic-mirror that my grandmother bought from a
gypsy woman a thousands years back….. It’s a whisper after a hundred years of
solitude….. It’s a raindrop in the desert….. It’s a walk in the rain…..
It’s singing with the Nightingale….. It means not to regret ever….. It is
to let things happen as they tend to happen…. It calls us always….. Let’s
respond to it!…… It’s your life, colour it!
….. If you think that life is
beautiful, you’re right. If you think that life is horrible, you’re still
right…… The reward of suspicion is that you’ll get what you suspect
regardless of good or, evil…. Our life is exactly how we think about it, how
we shape it…..
I make my dreams happen….. I dream
as I wish…. I never regret, so time can never refrain me from the wonderful
careless whispers…..
You’re at your sweet will to smile
or, shed tears as you wish….. Why should blame your memories?….. Memories
are simply memories nothing else, our way of thinking makes them sweet or,
bitter!
19 October 2009
Friends! Has such a thing happened to me?… These days, I approach the subject of love with the same caution as one might use when speaking a foreign language..!!!
you are fallen, gentlemen….
Huh!… I’m not in love, rather,
love is in me!
Many of my friends say that I apparently talk too much about matters of love, though I’m hardly the perfect person to speak of such things. That’s precisely why I speak with such trepidation…..
19 October 2009
Judge not a man by his clothes, but
by his wife’s clothes!…. Friends! Is it really a proper judgement?
As long as the wife is a hot chick,
it makes sense. It’s a proper judgement.
Hmm….. Does it hold good when the
wife is just a housewife and the husband is the only bread-earner?
Well…how does just being a
housewife stop a wife from being a hot chick.
dada, love is blind, marriage is the
eye-opener… If we admit this, we must say that ‘a really hot chick wife’
usually gets more from the person other than her own husband who is in (blind)
love (not in marriage-bondage) with her!……lol…. Could I make the sense
clear?
Another materialistic truth : A
successful man is he who can fulfil all of his wife’s demands and a successful
woman is she who can find such a husband!
The dress of a woman shows her
husband’s wealth and the dress of a man usually shows his wife’s choice!
Judhishir did not stop Draupadi
getting disrobed. What do you think of that, Dharmaraj?
…. Judhishthir was not a worldly
person. So, the materialistic wealth was of little use to him. As the clothes
of his wife symbolized his wealth (in accordance with my previous comment), he
was totally indifferent to the incident of Droupodi’s getting disrobed and
(probably) quite happy to see that incident as he was then on the way to be
fully out of materialistic wealth!…… Lol… A great man with a narrow
thought!
…. Girls are those who want to
discover themselves as wives. Wives are those who have once crossed the
boundary of girlhood, yet like to think themselves as girls especially, while
behaving with other people (preferably with males)!…….. Ziku, was it right?
Hmm….. Brother! You know, we can
write better about Hell than the people who have already been there!….. (In
fact, people already been in Hell never dares to write about Hell!…… Lol…
)
hmm,,,I can realise this is the time
to take Delhi ka laddu..!!
so no need to delay…no risk no
gain,,,,,,, hahahaha Hell in a cell…..
…. Hell in a cell…. Not bad!
…. Just look at the dress up of
one of your friends and at her husband’s bank balance!