Thought: Four Hundred Eighty-Four
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13 September 2009
Friends! Why should you use an
actor’s/actress’ photo as your Facebook profile picture when he/she is not
using yours?
One of my Facebook friends added a
girl and fell in love with her only seeing her profile picture…… I’d like
to add, that girl used Penelop Cruize’s photo and my friend never saw any
foreign language movie!……. Now, my friend blames Penelope Cruize, why is
she so lovely?……. Has Cruize any fault here? Lol……
Thanks God! I had known Aishwariya
Rai before I started using Facebook! ……… I can’t even imagine what would have
happened otherwise!……… Probably, I even agreed to commit suicide for that
Facebook friend who used her photo as profile picture!
Hmm……. Now another problem might
arise! If I’m more handsome than that actor is, how can people believe that the
more handsome guy is me myself? They would then took that ugly guy for me!
Lol……
And that would be suicidal!
I wonder, those boys and girls, who
even don’t like to see their own faces, how they use mirror while combing their
hair!……. Do they supposedly bind their eyes with a piece of cloth while
standing before a mirror?
Actually, who use fake profile
pictures, they wanna mean something more than only friends! Lol…….
Ahem, ahem!……. Friendship is,
after all, too divine to call in this context!
Fake aspect also?….. No Rajeev, I
can’t accept this bonus (!) aspect also, rather I’d be happy if I only get the
minimum reward that friendship offers! No need of ‘extra fake khatir’!
I think they don’t like to find us
disheartened to see their profile pictures. After all, we are their friends! A
real friend never makes you disheartened at first impression! Lol…….
From this status message, I’m happy
to be sure of some friends who don’t use fake profile pictures. Lol……
14 September 2009
Friends! Can you remember at what
age you fell in love for the first time in your life?
Two things never sink into
oblivion…… First Love and First Poetry!
Hope the future girlfriends will
also be concerned about the previous ones, as you’re a true lover! Lol…..
Hehehe…… LOVE SERIES!……
Lol……….. I think there is no age limitation of love. So, let’s accept and
give love from and to others from the cradle to the grave!
First Love!…….. Friends! Do you
think that it is hijacked very often? Lol……
Friends! Do you know how many times
people agree to sacrifice their lives for their beloved?…… I heard, A cat
has nine lives. Now, I can see many of us have even nine thousand lives……
That’s better and helpful for promising to sacrifice lives each time we fall in
love!
I even sometimes feel that not only
I fall in love but Love also fall in me very often!
What can I do if she takes my every
single word for a promise? Lol…..
Before marriage…… FALL IN
LOVE………. After marriage……. RISE TO LOVE……. Could I make the sense
clear? Lol…….
hey love doesn’t have anything to do
with marriage or any other reality factor. if someone muddles up his/her life
and love (in one word love life) for being stupid and disorganized, that is not
the fault of the term “love” itself
14 September 2009
The length of a good film should be
directly related to the endurance of the human bladder….. Friends! Agree? or,
Disagree? (lolz…..)
minus the intermission.
Good point! Lol……
I never mind to hear a comment from
a friend who aren’t supposed to comment it that way!
15 September 2009
If you like or, comment on an idiot
Facebook status message of your friend, this means that either you’re stupid
or, you like your friend to be stupid. Most boys like girls to be stupid.
Lol…..
O friends! Not being able to
differentiate between witty and stupid status is also a type of stupidity! Got
the point? Lol……..
But, …….. Stupid status messages
are not disagreeable at all. How can we expect that an idiot should think
intelligently only when he gives a status message?…… The problem arises
only when we accompany them! Lol……..
Friends! Is it not a moral crime to
encourage idiots to be more stupid?……. If we don’t consider it a crime than
we are surely too stupid to understand his/her stupidity!
Freedom to be stupid!……
Wow!……. Now, I feel like being an idiot.
Now, my question is, why should the
girls enjoy ‘the freedom to be stupid’ more than the boys? Is it not discriminatory?
Hmm……… The pleasure of being
stupid is that you need not bother about the judges who can measure your
stupidity as such persons are rarely to be found!
Hmm…….. Boys pretend to be
stupid to those girls who can hardly trace their pretention……. So, hope you
don’t belong to that group.
15 September 2009
If you waste some time in enjoying
yourself, is it a wastage of time at all?
Waste of time………is surely a
relative idea. It varies from person to person, place to place, time to time.
But when enjoyment is concerned, I think, it is never a wastage, because the
scope of enjoyment is on the wane in today’s materialistic life. So, why should
we spare any opportunity to bathe in the ocean of joy? Don’t we work for
enjoyment? If yes, why should enjoyment be a waste of time?
Another worth-mentioning
point……… Different stages of our life demand different matters from us. I
never regret my comics-reading period, because but for those silly books the
taste for reading would never been grown in me. What’s the use of persuading a
child in reading James Joyce? Rather let it read Alice in the Wonderland.
Gradually it would switch out of that inclination.
Again, if we pass some time in
listening to a music or, reciting a poetry or, reading a book or, watching a
movie can we ever purchase the pleasure derived from that for even millions of
dollars? Never…….
I think when a person starts
thinking he has the fullest right to waste his time in enjoying, he starts
becoming a complete man. Life isn’t too long to regret or, compromise on
different views. What is this life if full of care, and we have no time to
stand and stare? I shape my personal world with my thought, soul and here I’m
the only person to reign. I define things in my own way and things work as I
want, if they work otherwise, they are not for me………..
Can we say ‘wastage of time’ is
governed by end result.
Case1- A person studies very hard
for say ICS (the most coveted exam in India), in all the permissible 3
attempts. He could qualify prelims, then main exam but failed to crack the
final 3rd round of interview. Hasn’t his entire effort & time gone waste?
Now Case2- James Watt was a big
idler. His aunt used to curse him round the clock for sitting idle and doing
nothing. One evening he was sitting idle in the kitchen and watching the
kettle’s lid opening and then closing after the steam was released. This
infused the idea of ‘steam having power’ into his idle mind and he invented
steam engine and thus became ‘father of Railway system’. Can you call his
idling a waste?
Now tell me who wasted time?
Wow! Great examples!…………..
You’re reminding me, “France was saved by her
idlers!”……………….. Success and failure are two different sides
of the same coin—–WASTAGE OF TIME!!!
Enjoyment is the only matter to
which all have an equal access.
Thought: Four hundred eighty-five
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15 September 2009
……. enjoying the musical silence
of night.
The music of silence bears the
symphony that cannot be expressed in words just to be felt through heart.
I dreamt of her because I was
thinking of her.
Had I known it was a dream, I should
not have wished to be awaken.
16 September 2009
Today, watching these tears of rain… I remembered you… two eyes wet with tears… you had hidden your face, wearing the kohl of sorrow…
Translation: O dear! I remember your
sweet memories seeing the teardrops of rain this day…… I’m amazed to see
your eyes bathed in tears……. The other day you veiled your face to hide the
melancholy of your soul.
You went away accompanying utter
grief leaving me alone in the shore…… How far would you?……. I want to
be your constant companion……..
16 September 2009
Where should we go after the last
frontier?……. Where should the birds fly after the last sky?…… Friends!
Can you help me find the answer?
If nothingness is nothing, why
should we dive into it? Why can’t we but be helpless in this regard?
Our soul finishes its journey only
when we let it do so. Nothingness is, therefore, not an absolute idea.
আমার মনে হয় আমরা এক অনন্ত বৃত্তে পরিবেষ্টিত যেখানে আমরা অনন্তকালে পৌঁছানোর জন্য নিরন্তর যাত্রা করি কিন্তু গন্তব্যের এখানে আপেক্ষিক তাৎপর্য রয়েছে। এটি একটি যাত্রা, চূড়ান্ত গন্তব্য নয়। আমাদের চিন্তাভাবনা সমস্ত ভাবনাকে নিয়ন্ত্রণ করে এবং আমরা কখনো পূর্ণতায় পৌঁছাই না। শেষ সীমানা ভিন্ন দৃষ্টিভঙ্গি থেকে দেখলে আলাদা। আমরা আমাদের জগৎকে আমাদের নিজস্ব পথে গড়তে পারি এবং যে কোনো অনুপ্রবেশ বা আক্রমণ তার মাত্রা পরিবর্তন করতে পারে। আমরা যত বেশি সক্ষমতাগুলি লালন করি, ততই মাত্রা বিস্তৃত হয়। এটি কখনো পরিপূর্ণতায় পৌঁছায় না।
প্রায়ই এমন চেতনা স্বতঃস্ফূর্ততার সাথে সাদৃশ্য রাখে এবং পরিপূর্ণতা তৈরি করে কিন্তু আরও পৌঁছানোর জন্য, আমাদের ইচ্ছা যতই উত্তাল হোক না কেন।
অসীম শূন্যতা নিয়ে চিন্তা করার কিছু নেই!
১৬ সেপ্টেম্বর ২০০৯
যখন আমি প্রেমের কাছে এগিয়ে যাই, সে আমার মধ্যে নিজেকে চাপা দেয়… তাই আমি সিদ্ধান্ত নিয়েছি সে যেন আমার কাছে আসে… আমি বরং তার সাথে লুকোচুরি খেলব!
আমি প্রেমকে বহুবার প্রতিশ্রুতি দিয়েছি… পরে বুঝেছি আমি কেবল ভাঙার জন্য প্রতিশ্রুতি দিয়েছি… তখন আমি সিদ্ধান্ত নিলাম প্রেমকে দিয়ে আমার কাছে প্রতিশ্রুতি করাবো… প্রেমের খাতিরে আমি তাকে প্রতিশ্রুতি ভাঙতে দেব না…
আমি প্রেমকে শেখালাম কীভাবে ভাঙা হৃদয় নিয়ে বাঁচতে হয়… সে চিরকালের জন্য আমাকে ছেড়ে যাওয়ার জন্য বেশিক্ষণ থেকে গেল… আমি ইচ্ছায় নিজেকে পুড়িয়ে দিলাম… তবুও তাকে নিরাপদে চলে যেতে দিলাম…
আমি অন্ধকারের দেয়ালে হাঁটলাম… প্রেম আমার আত্মার কাছে যাত্রা করল… আশ্চর্য, আমি সবেমাত্র তার কথা শুনেছি… শুধু অন্ধকারের নীরব সুরে তার সারমর্ম আবিষ্কার করেছি!
আমি ভেবেছিলাম, আমি হৃদয় ভরে প্রেমের সুধা পান করেছি… কিন্তু আমি শুধু সামান্য চুমুক দিয়েছি… আমি নিজেকে তোমার চোখে বন্দী পেয়েছি… যদিও আমি কখনো তোমার কাছে একটি চুম্বন চাইতে সাহস করিনি!
প্রেম একবার আমার আত্মার কাছে ফিসফিস করেছিল… আমি তা শোনার জন্যও খুব ব্যস্ত ছিলাম… অনেক পরে আমি তার প্রতিধ্বনি শুনেছি… আমার হৃদয় তা ধরে রেখেছিল, আমার মনে হয়েছিল যেন ভেসে বেড়াচ্ছি… আমাদের মধুরতম অনুভূতিগুলি সর্বদা অস্পৃশ্য থেকে যায়, আমি বুঝেছি।
সাধারণ সুশান্ত, যদি তুমি কিছু অভিজ্ঞতা না কর, তুমি শুধু কল্পনায় রয়েছ এবং সেটি সর্বদা সবচেয়ে মধুর কিন্তু প্রেমের ক্ষেত্রে – তোমাকে তার স্বাদ নিতে হবে প্রিয়। হয়তো তুমি বোনাস বৈশিষ্ট্য “ব্যথা”কে ভয় পাও কিন্তু সেটি কি প্রেমকে আকর্ষণীয় করে তোলে না যা তার উপর নতুন মাত্রা যোগ করে?!
আমি প্রেমকে মুগ্ধ করেছিলাম, তার উৎসাহকে… দেবদূতেরা একবার তা ছিনিয়ে নিয়েছিল… আবার তা তীরের উপর তারার মতো ঝরে পড়ল… প্রেমকে কীভাবে বশীভূত করা যায়? আমি তাদের ভাবতে বাধ্য করেছি!
Love tried to veil thine radiant eyes…
Even you remained behind the silken snare of your tresses… How could pearls
get concealed when oysters let not so?… Can water but turn to wine if I leave
a kiss?
Love gave me leave to kiss, made me
bold to woo… Yet, how can daring fate be ignored? I wonder!… Elsewhere in
other world, my soul dotes in silence… In the distant shore, you dreamt to go
once.
Friends! Is there any fall of
rhythmic sense in my writing? Please let me know whether this poetry is turning
boring. Should I stop?
The story of that distant
bliss–couldn’t but be gone with the wind…. Left me insane, just in the lap
of eternity… So obvious in hue, yet blurred in guise of the Devil… I
recalled my oath, that I made not to you, but to my love… Again, comes the
Danne, just emerged from the ever-frozen zone!
As vowed I’ve, never dared banish
Love… Never too late begins my ache to shun… Gentle swain as I’m to
refuse… To turn wicked spirit into divine one!
O Love! You whom I often and
silently can’t but go… Hear the sighing sound beyond silence’s shore… Yet
not too late to counsel or pray… I’ll dare to bet Love’s broken heart for
decades to come!
18 September 2009
Old friends pass away, new friends
appear. It is just like the days. An old day passes, a new day arrives. The
important thing is to make it meaningful: a meaningful friend – or a meaningful
day.
Sometimes some people just pretend
like friends. They can hardly receive you as friends from their soul. In some
cases, it even so happens that they might have appeared before you as friends,
but in disguise only for gratifying some interests. If you remain busy with old
disguised ones you bear the risk of losing the new ones who might receive you
cordially. Why should you care about those who feel that they need not care
about you? What’s the use of spending our short life just in waiting for those
who aren’t worthy of your friendship?
I think about different topics not
because all of them happen in my case, but because they deserve my thought.
Human heart is a wonderful thing. It
is formed is such a way that it can treasure tons of sweet memories into it and
also retrieve them whenever necessary at different moments. But should you
treasure anything that causes your sensitive heart ache? Is life long enough to
spend it in just compromising?
19 September 2009
Today is our holiday, O
brother… today
is our holiday…
Translation: It’s holiday today. O
blessed holiday. Today we’ll lose ourselves in the midst of joy and fun…….
… I am always free. Who has the power
to bind me? I live in perpetual holiday!
Even when busy, life’s small joys peek through… even in grey darkness, rain comes!
Thought: Four hundred eighty-six
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19 September 2009
Oceans are apart, day after day and
I slowly in insane……. Wherever you go, whatever you do, I will be right
here waiting for you.
What about ‘Careless Whisper’?
Hmm…. Then, ‘I Love You More Than
I Can Say’…..
Wow! Nice! I live with music, eat
music, bath in music, sleep with music.
Summer of ’69.
Hmm….. In the festive holidays,
I’m gonna be in a hilarious mood as I always am. What’s your plan?
You fill up my senses like a night
in the forest….
20 September 2009
Friends! Does such a situation ever
arise when it is okay to break a promise?
20 September 2009
I discover the essence of Love in
the silent music of darkness…..
love begins, when silence speaks
Friends! This quotation is collected
from my poetry, “Broken Appointments of Love” which is available in
my Notes section.
21 September 2009
Some relationships are made only to
break up, some are forever,… forever,….. forever!
Some relationships never break up
through tears nor through smiles.
Even when near ones go distant
relationship may not break up, but it surely breaks up when near ones create
distance.
some relationships are made only to
break up, some are forever… forever…. forever to be cheated…
Pessimistic view! Just think, can
you be cheated by anyone if you let not him do so?
And relationship has the magic to
make you happy forever!
relationship are intricate in my
view – a subtle relationship is only possible if you look after it like your
new born baby
I was thinking of relationship of
every type.
every kind is difficult.
Very simple if you take it simply!
can you see simplicity in
relationships around? If it would, that could be great! Even the relatively
most sensible people get muddled up with relationships!
I’ll have, I can bet!
I know better, as I think so. You’ll
know better than I, only when you’ll think so!
22 September 2009
I met her once, yet didn’t……
What an illusion!
She came in my dream, stayed in my
heart, will never disappear till I let not!
It’s difficult to trace her, yet she
lives forever in my heart, my soul!
I wanna live in illusion forever if
she is in it!
Great she is as I love her. Lucky
I’m as she is great!
I can even sleep forever if I can
meet her in my dream! Don’t awake me up.
Can love ever leave you if your
existence is formed of love? We never part through smiles nor through tears!
I’d like to remain worthless even
for years after years only to muse over the charm of Love…… You sound much
like my poetry ‘Broken Appointments of Love’!
Love is an illusion we can hardly
deny.
All aren’t poets, some are. Again,
among those ‘some’, they aren’t always poets, but sometimes are. With the touch
or, feeling of love in the soul imagination is coloured and the desired
illusion we go through!
22 September 2009
A Truth in disguise is more
dangerous than a Lie!
You can never unveil a lie unless
another disguised truth casts away its mystic appearance in veil.
A PEACEFUL (SUSHANTA) MAN is more
dangerous in dark glasses than a violent man with uncovered eyes!
A good reader is often more
difficult to disagree with than an average writer. In that way a reader excels
the writer!
A good critic is he who can unveil
the guise of a disguised writer or, a reader but hardly of his own! Lol….
are we discussing a run period
too….well didn’t know that…….yes agree on that long run part…&
buddies all these lines are somebody else’s sayings……..their experiences in
life…so we cannot generalize ’em.
Buddy, I told those lines from my
own speculation. So, I can very well clarify that idea on my part.
SP I’m talking about the lines I
wrote….I guess we all lie in one form or the other
We’re the adroit performers wearing
masks.
lie is a universal fact….since
stone age…donno why some cowards cover it with some icing…accept it
man…we all lie for one or the other reason…at least tell the truth here on
this point that we all lie…was Gandhi an honest man…people say he only told
truth…well don’t wanna go in a political discussions…just wanna say…truth
& lie are not so easy to define……..as said in one line by SP
Why should you leave the context of
Gandhi?
though deep down we are attached to
our conscience which we can’t ignore, no matter how perfect liar we are!
The art of ignoring our conscience
is called a lie, you know better!
hey I know this part sush, but
explain “truth in disguise” – give me an example
Just look through your life and
lives around you. You’ll get thousands of examples.
hey I asked for just one, not
thousands! And also, I am a kinda idiot with a clear head, this kinda idiots
are incapable of disguise…. lol
You already have a moment ago, I
wonder.
why you suspicious Sushanta, you
mean I am not an idiot that makes the statement a lie, my only problem is with
the ‘truth in disguise’ bit.
A truth in disguise is a truth in
veil for the fear of an unwarranted assault.
Sushanta Paul Hmm….. A truth must
have no veil over it. The veiled truth seems to be a truth but it bears the
traits of a lie.
22 September 2009
What have I learnt from this Eid
vacation?… Well, some movies are hard to digest, some are easy to be
digested!
Movies are like foodstuffs…….tasty
food (fried/ fast food) may be hard to digest whereas digestible ones may taste
bitter. Tasty (entertaining) commercials films may be illogical whereas logical
art films are damn boring……
Exactly!
But in both the cases majority of people
run after good taste only. That’s the reason why do we see plethora of fast
food joints and truck loads of commercial films….
Fast food has always the charm of
spicy taste, you know!
Sometimes we also enjoy some minute
details (!) of life also!
What about cinema hall or theatre?
Lol….
Now the technicians are of great
demand to the mass people. Some even take engineers for technicians also!
LOL…
No matter whether the supply is
expired or not, right? Lol…
There are people whose appetite is
stronger. They can digest even the expired items. lol
We also need some digestive
medicines for that!
Hmm…. No talk is boyish or,
girlish. How you take a thing matters most.
Reflection: Four Hundred and Twenty-seven
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23 September 2009
Childhood is measured out by sounds
and smells and sights, before the dark hour of reason grows.
We all pretend of getting older, but
actually we never like it.
Most of the time we feel like not
getting older though we can’t help it!
Our childhood is often stolen. And
we hardly have any say against this unwarranted stealing.
Not accused on our own accord, but
on the accord of our foolish society!
Our heart feel like going back but
the society’s materialistic view spoils our diction for the time being, doesn’t
it?
The strangeness of this strange
world makes us amazed, but hardly offers much scope to explore into this!
hey we are part of the society –
blaming the society means you got to take the blame too as a member
Hey! It’s a credit to be out of
society while living in it. You’ve to create your own world.
You can’t help coming if you’re too
honest to pretend!
The cul-de-sacs of our childhood
always remain unexplored, I wonder!
Nostalgia is the last resort in this
highly sophisticated society, I think.
Hmmm just lovely status msg and why
does it get muddled up with society, material world and all that…why can’t we
stick to the topic.
Hmm….. Because society makes us
think so. Anyway, do you wanna suggest more?
The dark hours of reason start only
when the indoctrinated fancies of childhood disappear. Then we step ahead to be
acquainted with the minute affairs of our daily life.
23 September 2009
I wanna keep a wave upon the
sand,…… I wanna hold a moonbeam in my hand…… But… How?
I once wandered on the floating
clouds, collected some of them and pinned in them…..
I find my life an empty page that I
wanna write on.
Why thunders follow lightening?
Well, thunders answer back what lightening asks them…. They once told me
this.
Listen to heart, obey what it says.
If it doesn’t say anything, just close your eyes, think of your parents and
you’ll surely happen to know what you should do!
23 September 2009
There’s nothing more irresistible to
a man than a woman who’s in love with him.
Woman loves in most cases not caring
about what the man thinks about her. I can tell you from my personal life……
Well, to feel irresistible a man must also love her.
Instead……. Let’s stick to flying
kisses fleeting away from us to our beloved ones making us float on the skies
of imagination rather spoiling our romantic feelings……. (I wonder I should
stop at this point, otherwise Chanak will……!!! )
Kiss may be an introduction.
Well…. But, what can be the most perfect introduction of a kiss, I
wonder!…. Not obviously only a plain conversation!…….. It hardly turns
irresistible.
When I feel awfully hungry but get
no food to eat, I even wonder what grass tastes like!…… I hope I’m not
getting out of the track!
If I sound funny, I’m afraid,….
probably my brain got caught in Chanak’s tickling comment! So, I feel I must
not seek apology more!
To be crowned is to be burdened,
even to be strangled to death when the crowned one doesn’t deserve it, you know
better!
Fond of as I’m of my friends, I
really don’t think I’m the right man for this admiration!
Girls often don’t deserve that
attachment, I wonder!….. Boys must not give girls what they don’t
deserve….. Hahaha….
It’s a welcoming compliment for poetry!…
For this very reason, I couldn’t accept a girlfriend as I was in love with
something else (literature)!
To most of us, an irresistible
matter isn’t something that can’t be resisted, but that is hard to resist. So,
love often meets a biased acceptance in our life, regardless of whether man or,
woman…… My status message isn’t passing this sub-way of life, I think!
Uh…… The real problem arises
when men feel irresistibility for his girlfriend after his marriage and the
wife is too loyal to be in love with someone else.
Perhaps these are the only vacancies
in the world that are created always more than the number of candidates.
but Sushanta adultery is nothing but
the application of democratic values to love
…… If you draw the context of adultery,
I’d say, it’s not the democratic values but socialistic values blended with our
democratic rights and responsibilities (!).
socialistic applies to orgies ( ya
but you have blended that with democratic rights so you are right)
Well, apparently couples both suffer
from a deplorable lack of curiosity about each other.
24 September 2009
It’s been a long time since I felt afraid. I feel a strong desire to be frightened….. Friends, what can be done about this, tell me?
Translation: It’s long since I got
frightened last. I feel like getting frightened. Friends! What should I do to
get frightened?
watch midsummer murders, though I
think you are too strong
Do you think being frightened is child’s play? I don’t get scared so easily. Hah!
Go To A Grave Yard @ Mid Night, Dig
A Grave, Get Inside It And Lie Down There For 1 Hour….. Or Go To A Morgue,
And Watch How They Did Postmortem Of A Dead Body….
I went to the graveyard at midnight yesterday. When I got there, I realized I’d seen one of the residents somewhere long ago. I couldn’t get frightened anymore….. When I went to dig my own grave, I found it was already dug! How is this possible? I couldn’t get frightened anymore!
I’ve been staring at that clock for a long time—the one that had stopped ages ago and suddenly started running again today. Still, I’m not getting scared. What has happened to me?
These days the dead are more alive than the living…….The full moon no longer seems to come. The full moon becomes the new moon…..My shadow therefore deceives me far too much…… I lose my way, yet the path never loses me……
Reflection: Four Hundred and Eighty-Eight
……………………………………………………
25 September 2009
Never say, I love you, to anyone, if
you really don’t mean it. Please never do it, never.
I, personally feel that I’m not
young enough to say, I love you, to 24 persons in a day of 24 hours.
hey, you don’t need to be young to
say I love you. but didn’t get that 24 persons/24 hours. what does that mean?
in my view you can’t be in love with even 2 persons at the same time!
Have you seen the movie ‘Love Story’
or, read that novel by Erich Segal? If not, I would rather you watched or, read
it as soon as possible.
Lovers, in these days, are like
cloths. You can change them whenever you like, need not wear the same all time,
can throw out whenever you wish only if you have the capability to afford
another one. Isn’t it miserable?
oh, they are not lovers Sush. I
still see real people’s heartache and still there are real lovers. the world
would have fallen apart if there weren’t any. but people are becoming
superficial and shallow and less passionate running after material world
I wonder, do such miserable fellows
love or, just pretend to love? Don’t they feel any scruples being so mean? Is
it really a life? What is love but a way to life in the truest sense?
by the thought of it, actually now a
days it’s difficult to find happy people with a balanced mind. people are
either depressed or hyper active or punk
If I promise to you, “We’ll
never part” only to be parted, don’t I fool myself always? Is it life at
all?
It’s beautiful to love and to be
loved always…. But, before that, you must be worthy of it….. A knife could
be dangerous if gifted to a scoundrel.
hey not at all. I think at the time
you mean it, don’t you? but with the fickle in your mind it vanishes in no
time. my point, as I mentioned many times before “being honest to
thyself” is the main thing. but if someone just plain dumb and not sure
whether he/she is in love then I have no idea what to comment
Never waste an opportunity to say ‘i
love u’ to someone yo you really love…coz it’s not every day you’ll meet that
right person have the magic to let you fall in love.
আরেকটি চমৎকার উক্তি যা আমার সত্যিই ভালো লাগে!
ধন্যবাদ এর জন্য।
এটি আমাকে একটি দুর্দান্ত গজলের কথা মনে করিয়ে দেয়
“তামাম উমর তেরা ইন্তেজার হুমনে কিয়া…ইস ইন্তেজার মেইন কিস কিস সে প্যার
হুমনে কিয়া”..এর অর্থ সারাজীবন তোর অপেক্ষায় কাটিয়েছি…কিন্তু এই অপেক্ষায়
কত জনকেই না ভালোবেসেছি….পুরনো শায়েরের পুরনো গজল…যার মানে এই মনোভাবের সাথে
আজকের সময়ের কোনো সম্পর্ক নেই…হাফেজও এসবই করেছেন…অসংখ্য উদাহরণ…তাই
নতুন কিছু নয়….আর এখন এই আলোচনা পড়ে অপরাধবোধে ভুগছি…হে ঈশ্বর….বলেছি
“আই লভ ইউ” এত জনকে…..কিন্তু হ্যাঁ সবার জন্যই আন্তরিক ছিল…ধন্য ঈশ্বর!
যদি তুমি সবার জন্য আন্তরিক হও,
আমি ভয় পাই তুমি শুধু ভান করছো যেকোনো স্বার্থ হাসিলের জন্য যা-ই হোক না কেন!
আমি প্ল্যাটোনিক প্রেমের কথা বলছি যা
দম্পতিদের জন্য যারা চিরকাল একসাথে থাকার স্বপ্ন দেখে। হাহা……
….. আমি কখনো প্রেমে পড়ব না। প্রেম
প্রতি মুহূর্তে আমার মধ্যে নেমে আসে। হাহাহা….. দয়া করে আমার কবিতা ‘ভালোবাসার
ভাঙা অ্যাপয়েন্টমেন্ট’ পড়ুন আমার নোটে। তুমি আমার প্রেমের অনুভূতি সম্পর্কে আরো জানতে পারবে।
আমি সেখানে প্রেম নিয়ে আমার বিশেষ মতামত প্রকাশ করেছি…….ঈশ্বর নিশ্চয়ই আমাকে রক্ষা করবেন
শুধু আমার বন্ধুদের জন্য, আমি দৃঢ়ভাবে বিশ্বাস করি। ধন্যবাদ।
…. তুমি আমাকে আক্রমণ করতে পারো না যদি
আমি আক্রান্ত বোধ না করি…….. যদি তোমার ‘আই লভ ইউ’ বলতে ইচ্ছে করে, শুধু বলো, ‘
ভালোবাসা যেন আমার মধ্যে রয়েছে, আমি ভাবি আমি কি এখনো প্রেমিক!’ এটা নিরীহ এবং
একই অর্থ বহন করে না। হাহা…..
…. আমি ভয় পাই আমি যথেষ্ট যুবক নই
সেইসব বানানো কথায় বিশ্বাসী হতে এমনকি কেউ বললেও, হুহ!
…. তুমি অনেকটা আমার মতো শোনাচ্ছো
যা আমি বোঝাতে চেয়েছি।
আমি যদি তোমাকে ভালোবাসি, তার মানে এই নয়
যে তোমারও আমাকে ভালোবাসা উচিত…… এমন ধারণা মানসিক যন্ত্রণার আরেকটি কারণ, আমি মনে করি।
একজন হৃদরোগ বিশেষজ্ঞ এমন একজন ব্যক্তি
যিনি এমন সব ক্ষেত্রে কাজ করেন যা সম্ভবত তার নিজের ক্ষেত্রে ঘটেনি। সুতরাং, তার
জ্ঞান আত্মপর্যালোচনার উপর ভিত্তি করে, বাহ্যিক পর্যবেক্ষণের উপর নয়। হাহা…… কিন্তু
এই ধরনের জ্ঞানও কিছুটা কাজে আসে।
শান্তি হলো প্রেমের প্রাথমিক পর্যায়।
যখন প্রেম পরবর্তী পর্যায়ে পৌঁছায়, শান্তি সাধারণত বিলীন হয়ে যায়! সুতরাং, যদি তুমি
শান্তিতে থাকো, ভালো হয় যদি তুমি এটাকে অন্য কোনো উপাদান দিয়ে প্রতিস্থাপিত না হতে দাও।
ঠিক আছে, বন্ধুরা, বলো আমাকে, আই লভ ইউ,
হাজার বার বা আরো বেশি যতটা তোমাদের ইচ্ছে। কিন্তু, দয়া করে এরপর কখনো বিদায় বোলো না।
আমি ভয় পাই যে আমি কখনো সেই বিচ্ছেদের যন্ত্রণা সহ্য করতে পারব না যে একবার আমাকে
সেই তিনটি চমৎকার শব্দ বলেছে, আই লভ ইউ!
It’s better to love than to hate. In
that sense, I love you, you also love me. But, that’s pathetic. Sometimes,
bitter hatred means also ardent love. Again, love also breeds hatred sometimes.
So, it’s an illusion we can hardly escape just like the insects which can
hardly deny the attraction of death flying to the fire.
Love is only universal truth, that
has yet to be universally defined. So……
27 September 2009
Love means never having to say
you’re sorry.
civilization in an advanced state of
dk (oops I mean decay)
Decay meant if only we let it mean,
otherwise, never!
I mean decay of our mind in
perspective of individuals.
28 September 2009
Our sweetest moments come too late,
go away too fast. Eid & Puja came too late, went away too fast!….. Why
are dreamy moments so short-lived? Why?
I always live in dreams to enjoy the
reality.
The dew drops always vanish out long
before we get lost at their beauty. Nature hardly let us be lost!
Sushanta Paul After dew drops comes
your comment! After yours comes mine and…….
Dreaming is never a waste of time.
It is the locomotive to draw the wheels of our life. Subtlety of time adds hue
to it….. Eternity is the Utopia of our mind, the last refuge of our exhausted
soul…. We always regret only what we not dreamt of… You can never perceive
the presence of present moments without shaping them in your own way. Dream is
the raindrop in the desert……
Not only kids, but also all who love
making fun and wanna break up the monotony of existence eagerly await these
festivals. The pursuit of pleasure is the way to make our life worth of living.
And Eid and Puja are important in that regard.
Thought: Four Hundred Ninety-Nine
……………………………………………………
29 September 2009
One of my friends says,
“Generally, handsome boys cannot prosper in life. So, the girls marrying
those boys suffer a lot.”…. Is it true?
Ask me something that I don’t know!
I’m tired of hearing about this!
Most of the successful persons
aren’t handsome, only because handsome guys are rare to be found! That’s the
reason…. I think!
If you’re talking of
majority…there aren’t enough but handsome guys do prosper in life.
I think, some lovely women are
either too blind to find out handsome men or, hanker after the money of those
successful men…. It never means that all successful men are handsome.
Success is too relative a term to be
assigned to a group…. Some also say that handsome guys are averse to work.
That’s also a biased notion…… I saw many handsome labourers working very
hard! Lol….
….. Handsome are those who achieve
handsome. Nice saying!….. Did I say that my girlfriend told this to me?….
It’s often true that handsome guys are hardly seen married to lovely girls.
….. Actually, like others, I also
want to be successful in my career and matrimony. So, I got confused whether I
don’t have the quality to be successful! Lol….
Really…….LOL.. Handsome perceive
handsomely. so got maximum output. He topples from rail whenever he loses his
consistency…
Losing consistency might be caused
due to inconsistent behaviour after marriage when you’re too busy at finding
your previous consistencies that you had before marriage! Lol….. In such
cases, your handsomeness can hardly work to your advantages. So, if you get
slipped off, this is probably for other reasons, not for your handsome
look!…..
hey sush, your friend defo is not
handsome…lol
…. No. But, he is handsome in his
girlfriend’s eyes only. And, his girlfriend is lovely in my eyes only!
Lol……
Girish…… Sometimes lack of
girlfriends also makes a man feel like being unsuccessful! Lol……. Anyway,
your idea is very true in most cases….. So, it’s better for a handsome guy to
avoid girlfriends before being successful so that no one can blame his
handsomeness! …. Right?
….. Did you see how easily I
trapped you? Hahaha…. Are you meaning something else? Triangular Love Story
is too complicated for me too suit, you know better, I think!…. But I should
perhaps write my first novel on such plot, as I managed to fool you! Lol……
……. If I really write a novel
based on her ideas, I’m afraid, I’ll probably have to give compensation of
printing to the publishers, instead!
lol no worries, I am not gonna claim
any of it. just go ahead and do the best you can do
30 September 2009
How far in the world will you go to
be with her?
the end….
If she crosses the last frontier,
then?
live with her memories……
If her memories ever sink into
oblivion…..then?
memories NEVER sink into oblivion
Sushanta……they may fade away, but you can never forget them….
Better to be imbibed into her
existence, if ever she is gone, a dead soul is left with you, that is your
heart follows every corner she goes. You will part only at death!…. This is
true love, I think!
We will never part through smiles
nor through tears…….. We’ll share what we feel, we’ll never feel what we
can’t share…… This is true love.
This proves that love can sometimes
be one-sided also. But such type of love is often unwarrantable, I think!
If you love someone, follow her till
death parts you. But, if it’s an illusion, better not to follow that twinkling
star. If you think that you love someone that doesn’t mean she has to also love
you, you’ll just have pain that you don’t deserve. Life is beautiful. You have
no right to spoil it.
I agree with you SP..asif I too have
gone through the same situation like u….now I realized I just wasted all
those years in a one sided love…go ahead & tell her your feeling…wish
you all the luck to make it 2 sided or else get aside & keep falling in
& out of love.
That’s a cool answer!…. What about
the passage that you’re to cross?
Ok, passage of her mind, streets of
her soul. Then what about the avenues that she crosses but not crosses through
her mind?
to cross the passage of her mind
sometimes you have to recite passages
Ok. Stay at the letters of imagination.
Just add some hue to it!
30 September 2009
Life is beautiful.
Life is always more beautiful than
we can even imagine. Lalalalala…..
I don’t care about girlfriends. Our
life is not too long to spoil in just chasing an illusion.
Life is a most beautiful prayer and
if we live deep in our souls we can manifest a desired life style of love and
harmony.
Life is what we make it! Just make
it beautiful.
Life is a mirror. Just look through
it smiling, you’ll get smiles in return.
The film shows only three aspects of
our life. There are more enjoyments to derive from life.
I’m quite happy without girlfriends.
One friend asked me if I’m
dreaming…… Brother, if life appears beautiful in my dream, I’m agree to
dream even throughout my life.
Hmm…. Happiness is a wonderful
thing. It depends on how we meet our life, work with it and ready to accept
it….. It is a matter that is not to be searched, but to be felt….. We
always have it, just fail to feel it.
The greatest reward that I have got
still now from life is that I always find my life exactly what I think about
it….. If I think life is beautiful, it is exactly so. If I ever feel
otherwise, it is still true! Life always respects my feelings….
Touch of a woman may make you feel
better, but it doesn’t mean that such golden touch is a must for that divine
feeling. You feel exactly how you want to feel….. Our feeling never goes
against our own way of thinking!
Marriage is just a part of our
life… It spoils our happiness only when we lose our independent way of
thought…. Life remains still beautiful after marriage, if we don’t change our
attitude towards life….. I know many cases where marriage played a vital role
to bring about more positive aspects…..
Life is a prayer! That’s great…..
I’d like to add, life is the sweetest prayer that never pays less than we
pray… Now, the only thing that we’ve learn is, how to pray.
It’s true that beauty is only on the
eyes of the beholder….. But, I wonder, can pearls ever deny the beauty of
oysters?….. Probably, never!
Life is ugly, ruthless, dangerous,
never ending battles, full of frustrations as we find it every moment
Yes brother, you’re right as long as
you think so…. Life always gives you what you deserve from it.
Brother, why should I take others’ votes to know what my life is like?
Depression is nothing but a weapon to suicide!
Life is beautiful and we should
consider each day as a day to be celebrated and enjoyed to the fullest
Let’s live every moment!…. A day
is surely lost if we don’t smile at least once on that day!
remember folks that depression is
not real and exists only in the mind / only despair is real
Just waiting may ruin your whole
life as you might have to wait throughout your whole life. Better, be happy
with what you’ve at this moment, try to feel the presence of your soul. You
might not even have the chance to repent tomorrow if you don’t enjoy your life
today.
Despair is the reward of ignorance
about the essence of life!
Party time folks – Sushanta where do
you plan to hold the party
I heartily welcome any party on my
wall! lol…
Carpe diem!Life becomes much more
beautiful when we are aware of others suffering and do something about it..
Yes. I’m ready for that. I always
welcome anyone if he/she feels that I can do the slightest favour for him/her.
No SP, people who are really
suffering rarely come to you……you will have to reach out to them…..n at
times.. when you’re ready to do something good, a few people in our society
will say…..no don’t!! 🙂
…… I never care what others say,
just care what my heart says…. You’re true, friend! That’s an irony of fate
we can hardly deny. Thought provoking, indeed!
Reflection: Four hundred and ninety
……………………………………………………
1 October 2009
The day you finally decide to love
me will be the day after the day I’ve given up chasing you…. Friends! Do you
support this idea?
I’ll never part with you nor through
smiles nor through tears. Only death can untie this bondage.
I quite like the chase…it does wonders
for your ego….I keep you chasing…I know, what a tease?
Chasing and teasing are two
different concepts. The first one is done from love, the second one is from
lust……. Love can happen in many ways; lust destroys those ways and chooses
a different one.
Ques: Why do guys chase girls though
they don’t intend marrying?
Ans: ……..for the same reason
that dogs chase cars though they don’t intend driving.
Girls also chase boys. I can tell it
for sure. In that case, the chased get some advantages over the chaser.
oooh personal experience Sush?
Not personal experience, rather
bitter personal experience!
the chaser has no way of knowing
whether he will be lucky but the chased one knows
ohh its high time you start writing
your novel Sush
The chased also sometimes becomes
confused to decide whether he/she is supposed to be chased or, not………
Novel writing demands also the opposite, that hasn’t occurred yet!
…. I prefer not to enjoy of being
chased to enjoy being chased by the wrong person (probably for another reason.
Lol).
1 October 2009
It is better to stay alone than to
stay with a wrong person.
Some friends often ask me why I
don’t have any girlfriend. That’s the answer…… If ever I find the right
person, I will never say her goodbye.
Why should I pay for compromising
with my life? Is our life long enough to stay some years with a wrong person,
then repent for that throughout the rest of my life? Never! We’ve no right to
ache this beautiful life.
If you want to go a long way in your
life, please go with a right person. If you can’t find him/her, better go
alone. You might have not enough time even to repent afterwards. Our life is
long enough to spend just in compromising and repenting.
If I spend my short in just
compromising, when is the time to enjoy it? Can you tell me that?….. Why
should I repent or, cry over anything that never comes back? If you’re too
cautious while colouring your own life, you may have coloured it, but surely
will miss the pleasure of that colour. Others around you will perhaps take this
opportunity. Is it life?
I think you can’t be sure whether
the person is wrong or right unless you marry him or her. Going on with a
person is much more different than living with that person under the same roof.
so, you can’t judge a person as right or wrong without undergoing a social
bonding and responsibilities— attitude, commitment and impressions during
bachelor period or pre-marital stage are always misleading!!
….. Dost, that’s really a problem!
Can you remember you introduced a law on ‘Salowaar-kaamiz’ while we’re in
Chittagong College in HSC? Lol….. Please introduce something like that. I
know you can do it!
….. Why should I compromise with
anything that I deserve? Why should others get anything that they don’t deserve?
It’s not fair!
….. So, never love a wrong person.
And never make a person wrong after you love him/her! Lol…..
…. I’m great!?….. I’ve known it
just now. Wow!
Sushanta – you just can’t live life
like that – you gotta enjoy it – if you like some girl and she also likes you
then go ahead check out if things are OK (unless you are in love in which case
you should not check out)
to put it succinctly – you have to
check in to check out
…. Check in to check out! That’s
not a bad idea!….. If I find nothing to check in what might be the solution?
Well friends, I saw all comments!
Can I offer a cocktail of old & new? A mixed blend of India & BD? With
no prejudices to anyone with any bckgrnd…..Marriage is the name of
compromise. In old Indian culture, we match 36 gunas, based on astrology. More
More the guna matches, more the liking of each other’s habit. But there was
none in entire history of the then Mahabharat consisting of entire region Pak/
India/ BD, except just one match…full 36. They had no differences but still
had a very tough life. I can tell SP privately who were they.
Now coming to modern way of finding
a match! In old times, parents used to fix marriage and boy was simply asked to
obey the command. Failure rate was 1%. But now, in spite of SP like
precautions, marriages materialise hard and even if they do, doesn’t last long.
In my own family, there are over 5 bachelor boys….of 30+ all. The culture has
changed and so the parents….almost given up! But still no one is happy. Bro,
you need a companion, with whom you can share. Not now but may be at the fag
end of life…. Live life in what god has given you. Marriage teaches you the
art of giving….to your wife…to your kids…to your grandkids. And believe
me, the happiness derived in such kind of giving is not there in any form of
taking!…. SP, don’t live life just for you. Start learning to give and
sacrificing. Our part of oriental society so demands.
….. Marriage is the art of giving.
That’s a nice notion, indeed. Here we receive many things also. And for this
dual policy there grows a sense of responsibility and mutual intelligibility.
Responsibility conferred on you without obeying your liking or, disliking often
makes a fuss and initiates a sense of compromising of just an escape. Marriages
taste sweet only when we find a reason to compromise, a zeal not to regret ever
and a viability to any disaster if ever ensued in a conjugal life. This
perspective works well irrespective of ages and regions, I think……….
Anyway, the contrast and analogy of primitive and present Oriental societies
also demand further attention. Thanks dada.
…. I never said that I’m always
right while my girlfriend may not be. I just felt like crossing the passage to
renovation alone instead of road to perdition with her…… Again, in case of
parents and friends…… I think it’s possible not to exist psychologically
but merely physically in a congregation. So, if you’re absent in your mind
set-up no one around you ever deserves your attention. In that case, you’re
perhaps walking all alone as a cluster of lonely clouds…. Singularism or,
Secularism concept is beneficial in that context, I think…… Thanks for your
comments.
…. I’d rather float on clouds than
to float on feathers.
Give and take, meet and mingle, never to return…..
… Nothing that life has given will go to waste… I came empty-handed,
all I’ve received in this dawn of life… in its very contemplation passes today… What good is it, tell me,
if you will only let go
of this hand you hold?
Love is not mere words,
If it be pure as earth,
I shall hold that
hand, know this surely,
Not just the hand but that heart too!
…..But this much I can say, I shall never again lose myself in the immersion of some memory forgotten by mistake!…. That alone is the ultimate truth today, a transcendent achievement!
Journey is always alone but choosing
or tolerating wrong person is a choice you make. you can walk out if it is not
for you.
….. The real disaster arrives when
we feel like holding a hand which we’re not supposed to hold. Life is a
continual journey. The choice is ours so far as we aren’t bound to yield to our
destiny or, make our days as we want. But the reality is, can we always make
the choice as we want? Such situations also ensue when we have no choice but to
submit!
to phrase it differently it is better
to stay with the right person rather than the person left.
… It’s better to be left alone
than to be left with the person who are not supposed to be left for the rest of
the life left for you and nothing right is left anymore.
Wrong person? Sometimes mistakes bloom into flowers!
Sometimes flowers turn out to be mistakes!
What do you say,
Sushanta?
….. Now you’re left with my
fancies left for you! Lol….
Understanding! At the twilight juncture of dreams and understanding, in some half-lit moment, arrives a love letter.
…I abandon all gods and come to the god of my soul….I ask this heart of mine….why does it circle like water, talking to itself alone!……
It is not alone!
……..I know that!
…….How did you know?
How can my own bride go to another’s home through my own courtyard?
Hold my hand and lead me, friend, for I know not this path…
Fear not,
the path will surely recognize you! Losing one’s way doesn’t mean getting lost—it means discovering other directions!
Why fear,
friend?