The Indifference of the Dead

1.

: What is liberation?
: The renunciation of attachment.
: Attachment to wine, to sex, to money...such things?
: These are not attachments truly, merely fleeting infatuations. The primal attachment is to life itself, to the craving to exist. This alone must be conquered.
: Then must one die to renounce attachment?
: No. One must learn to live as the dead do—without desire, without claim.

2.

: Why do you wake in the deep night?
: To hear life's whispers, you must stay awake by day; but to feel life's truth within your own breast, you must stay awake by night.

3.

: Tell me—do you ever think that all those sages and seers, all those ascetics and wise ones whom people have remembered for so long...could you become something of their stature?
: Those who have passed away—why waste thought on them? I am alive, and therefore only I am real, only I am true.

4.

: Does prayer truly move a person to accomplish great deeds?
: No. Prayer merely grants one the courage to act.

5.

: What is true love?
: Steadiness. Such utter steadiness that one might think it could not possibly be love—it must be penance.

6.

: The person I loved deceived me. How shall I take my revenge?
: First, punish yourself; tell yourself that your love was insufficient, and that is why they turned to another. And for your revenge, love them twice as fiercely—but from a distance, with no touch, no trace.

7.

: What shall I leave for my child so that after my death they will not suffer?
: Leave them some suffering and some pain. Suffering has no heirs to claim it; therefore it will not weigh upon their mind as an inheritance to divide.

8.

: How long must I wait to find the person meant for me?
: Ask time itself whether, after waiting, you will find them—or whether you will turn away first.

9.

: I want freedom.
: Then grant freedom to those under your dominion, and then I shall know how much freedom you deserve.

10.

: You answer most people's questions, yet you remain silent on others. Why?
: I answer only those questions they wish to hear...and those answers are lies.
: Why not speak the truths instead of staying silent?
: If I say that everything this person does in this world is meaningless, that they can never truly satisfy anyone, what then?

How could I tell them that they will not recognize their own mother in her neediness, or recognize their small daughter, who will grow anxious to divide the inheritance while her father yet draws breath?

How could I say that their beloved, sworn lover, will in time reach for another's hand; that if they cannot secure a respectable place in society, their own father will deny knowing them?

Is it not better, then, to lie?