Learn to Take Care

 "What will remain, will remain"...this is nothing but a completely evasive, useless, and false statement. Without care, even iron rusts, even diamonds gather layers of dust.
  
 When neglect drives away even a pet dog, how can you expect that a human being will stay in your life without care?
  
 "If they stay, they stay; if they don't, so be it!"...this is an utterly irresponsible statement. Only those who lack the slightest sense of responsibility say such things. And those who speak this way don't actually deserve anyone in their lives. They should remain alone.
  
 You've seen it yourself—without care, weeds grow even in flower gardens, parasites sprout even on the crown of banyan trees. When neglect breeds weeds even among plants, how can you expect humans to remain despite neglect?
  
 If you notice, no matter how deeply you love someone, if you don't receive the same care from them, you'll gradually lose attraction, a kind of disgust will grow in your mind, and slowly your interest will shift toward someone else.
 The human heart is much like a stream of water—it flows wherever it finds a pull.
  
 This heart is also like a dog in many ways—with just a little care, it wants to hold on and survive.
 The person who has you but keeps you neglected under the principle "what will remain, will remain anyway!"—it's your duty to wrap them in plastic and toss them in the trash.
  
 The person who believes in such rotten principles like "if they stay, they stay; if they don't, so be it!" and doesn't even try to hold onto you—it's your urgent responsibility to spit in their face and walk away in the opposite direction, holding someone else's hand.
  
 To survive, you must know how to let go. No one is indispensable, nothing is eternal. Except death, no other event is inevitable.
  
 Our entire life is made in China—in reality, there's no such thing as a "guarantee" here! What exists is only on paper!
  
 Spending your precious love on someone who has no sense of duty or responsibility to hold onto you is the ultimate devaluation of love itself!
  
 In this world, far more important than love is self-respect. Those who don't know how to respect you don't deserve your love, regardless of their position! Those who don't value you are not worth even a fragment of value to you! Learn to understand your worth before it's too late! Let those who don't value you understand your worth. Time gives many answers without needing to say anything.
  
 Whatever happens, in human life, a caring person without love is far more necessary than an indifferent person with love. Life survives not on love, but on care. If you ever realize that your person loves you but doesn't know how to care or knows but doesn't care, that's when you should think about stepping away from their life.
  
 Those who don't care for you—if you investigate, you'll discover they actually want to care for someone else!
 If you have even the slightest shame, don't force anyone to care for you!
  
 No matter what kind of scars or wounds permanently attach to your body or mind, to leave a psychopath or toxic partner requires only one qualification: that you haven't already gone to the grave!